What kind of man are you really looking for? This is the question I would love for you to answer for me.

I am a confident man and I’m comfortable in my own skin. I don’t let the little things bother me, and it’s true that most things out there aren’t worth the worry. I’m laid back and very easy going and I really have to search hard for someone who doesn’t get along with me. My friends are numerous and my family is important to me. I also have a close group of friends that I have been around most of my life and I would love to introduce you to them. I also want to meet your friends and family and welcome them into my life.

I believe honesty and loyalty can lead to a path of living your life with integrity. I know firsthand a sense of humor can help you in virtually any situation. I have a serious side, but most importantly, I need to be me. I find so much satisfaction making people smile and I’ll do almost anything for a laugh or to put a smile on a stranger’s face. I have created a wonderful happy world for myself and I am ready to meet someone who wants to join me in life’s journey.

Yes, I have little things I look for in a woman, but I try not to let them get in the way. It’s easy to judge someone just by their pictures on here or misinterpret what they say in their profile. I don’t think you can know someone until you know someone. Does that make sense?

For me, I am looking for someone that will be willing to grow with me, learn from me, teach me, love me, and be loved by me. I want someone who thinks we both make each other better people. In short, I am looking for my equal. We should accept each other's faults and still love each other for them. We should be smart, sexy, confident, and affectionate in each other's eyes.

This might seem like a little thing, but if you are a bit sarcastic and funny it would be a great combination to have. Also being health consciousness is important to me as I hope it would be for you. Not crazy health conscious though, there is a ton of great food out there.

I love going to the gym and staying active and I hope you would too. It would be fun to play co-ed softball or volleyball with each other, but mostly, any quality time together would be nice and something I would deeply value.

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What I’m doing with my life:

I currently work as a Systems Coordinator for a local sporting goods company (pretty much computer and accounting support). I have been there since 1996. Summer time is full of softball and trips to the Ozarks. Music is also a big part of my life. I sing, play piano, and write my own music. Music is a great stress reliever for me. I even recorded an CD/Ablum a few years back.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about:

Where life is going to take me? What the next chapter life has in store for me? I think about how to continue to mature and better myself as a person. What life lesson I may learn today? What life will be like when I find that special person?

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Random things:

I like black pepper.

I make awesome guacamole.

I write right handed but hold a fork left handed.

I can make checkmarks ambidextrously.

I once tore my hamstring water skiing because I did the splits.

I once tore my hamstring in the gym on a machine.

I don’t like tearing my hamstring.

I make sun tea.

I keep a box of Wild Berry Skittles in my desk at work that I bought at Sam’s Club.

I can’t say no to pistachios.

I have never been to Pittsburgh.

I like to sing karaoke after a few drinks.

My dog is a big gian sweetheart.

I think if Hardees had the same menu they have now, 10 years ago, there would still be a lot of Hardees around town.

Something laid back and easy. Short and sweet is a pretty good first date. Meeting for a drink or coffee. That way you can get a feel for each other and see how the conversation flows. I think most of us have felt trapped before on a bad first date, having to sit through a long drug out meal or something similar. So I like short and sweet. Then you can make plans for dinner or something more fun on a second date.