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Hi! Well, I'm bisexual (NOTE: That does NOT mean slutty or indecisive. When I'm with someone, I'm with THEM and no one else) and so I sorta already filled this out once for my female seeking female profile, so it's gonna be a pain in the butt to do again, and I'll probably be a lot more brief, but here goes...

I'm an honest person, but kind. I like to think of myself as very generous and giving, and that's largely because I'm very empathetic to others. This doesn't mean I'm spineless, and I definitely will disagree with plenty of people very strongly, but that doesn't mean I have to act without civility or that I cannot have a discussion with them.

I treat people this way because it is the way I want to be treated. So often have I had people attack me for things they don't like or don't understand that I cannot ever see myself repaying that kind of unkindness to anyone else. The short version of that speech? The person I'm looking for MUST be open-minded.

And the reason for this is because I am transgender. Yup. Was born male. I hate telling people that, but you should know before you get any ideas about me. I'm currently in mid-transition, meaning I've been on hormone replacement therapy for three years, but I have not yet had any surgeries. I'm holding a fundraiser this December to pay for those surgeries and then hopefully be complete with my transition this coming May. If you can deal with that and still see me as a normal person, great. If you can't, don't bother to message me.

My three passions in life are video games, music, and writing. I also dabble in drawing, though my medium is pretty much confined to graphite and regular paper.

As for the video games, I don't enjoy them passively or let them suck up my time as wasteful hobbies, I appreciate them as an art form. In fact, some day I would like to have a career in the field, possibly as a creative director on a project or two.

I like mostly indie/alternative rock for music, but I admit that my favorite bands are definitely the more well-known of the indie/alternative genres, and I also admit that from time to time, I enjoy the shallow Top 40 songs on the radio. Some of my favorite bands include Fall Out Boy, Pearl Jam, Straylight Run, Motion City Soundtrack, Ludo, Paramore, and Maroon 5.

I pride myself on my intelligence and I don't like to be made a fool of. I try to present myself appropriately to varying situations; When I'm at a party, I'm funny and energetic. When I'm at a job, I'm professional and hard-working. When I'm meeting someone, I'm courteous and respectful. And, when I write descriptions of myself for a dating site, I tend to be a bit verbose. ;)

Obviously there's a lot more to me than this. Some of it's good, some of it's bad (hey, I'm not perfect!) but if you want to know more, you'll just have to contact me! =) Oh! Also, I no longer have red hair. It's brunette now. Small detail, but... mneh, can't upload a picture for some reason. Hope to hear from you!

Honestly, I don't care what I do for a first date, so long as it's clearly established AS a date. None of that "Hey, let's hang out alone and watch a movie at my friends while we cuddle on the couch. You know... as friends!" crap.

I will say that when I'm with someone, I like to be close to them, especially physically. I'm a cuddler, a kisser, and a nuzzler. But hey, maybe you're not, and that's fine too. I'm also usually content with whatever is decided upon through open and honest communication. Communication is key, after all.

When it comes to sex, I have to admit I'm something of a tease. I really like being lusted over, and so when a partner can't seem to resist me, that's a turn-on for me. But, I'm not really comfortable with going all the way right now, for several reasons. If that's really a huge issue and you can't appreciate the time spent with me without sex, then don't bother sending me a message.

I want that special someone to love me for me.