“Beachy City” Classic Girly Girl seeks “Beachy City” Classic Gentleman

What you want to know about me…
I am a young looking, and very petite, 51. I am entirely faithful and monogamous, but romantically adventurous and very affectionate with the right guy. I thrive on being an affectionate, loving, supportive, and considerate companion to a man whose ego will allow him to return the sentiment. One of the greatest gifts in the world to me is a lifestyle that balances love, business, friends, and family. While I am more of a planner and like to run on time, I also have a generous touch of spontaneity. I enjoy the finer things of life, with a mixture of American and European tastes, as well as, the simple and casual. I’m Spiritual, but not religious, and I love lively discussions about the Metaphysical aspects of life. also fascinated by entrepreneurial business pursuits, and it seems that every year I become a bit more politically conservative.

I prefer small dogs over cats and I have a 30lb Westie whom I adore. My preferred lifestyle includes a combination of spending time in the city and at the beach, and could easily be happy in Manhattan and Southern California.

Presently, I am developing several online businesses dealing with fashion. (If you have manufacturing experience with woman’s couture apparel or shoes, it might just be a match made in heaven!)

Seeking:
Physically, I’m looking for a single, Caucasian, heterosexual man, 45 to 55(ish), 5’4 to 5’9, with a medium build. I prefer a “classic, metro” style, who can go from jeans to black tie. Above all, he would have a healthy character & behavior, say honestly & directly what he will do, and then do it, because it’s just his nature to keep his word. He would be stable in his career & his lifestyle, and be comfortable with a woman who is running her own business.

I am most attracted to a Supporter/Promoter Personality type; someone who is naturally chivalrous, runs on time, and enjoys treating a woman like a lady. A man who is emotionally available, yet strong; trustworthy & faithful; a patient, loving, attentive, and supportive companion who enjoys spending quality time together; a man who is affectionate, sensuous, romantic, kind, genuine, sweet, considerate, generous, dependable, fun, and playful, with a healthy sense of humor; he should be self-aware and articulate; a planner who can also be spontaneous; healthy in mind, body, & spirit, with a balanced perspective on financial issues.

Someone who would like to travel, especially to the Mediterranean,Europe or anywhere with a beach; who enjoys the finer things in life and incorporates them into his lifestyle; who’d rather live in a condo than spend every weekend working on a house.

What’s Important To Me…
At my age, it’s a high priority to be with someone who chooses to live in the same personal environment; someone who is naturally neat, organized, and fastidious. We are the type of people who are sensitive and aware of both of our needs and desires, and are comfortable with the give-and-take that is the hallmark of a respectful relationship. Being with someone who can discuss problems calmly and rationally, and work toward solutions that works for both of us. I want someone with whom I share common values, and will especially respect a man who has done some serious personal-growth work, has an abundance of self-awareness, and lives by his principles. (as “M” says, “Ego and self-awareness seldom go hand-in-hand.”)

Relationships for me seem more enjoyable when they are healthy and interdependent. Sharing with someone who is about both the relationship and the task, not just one or the other, and with whom neither hesitates to take the initiative in the relationship, nor is threatened if I do.

I believe humanity’s greatest need is to know and be known. None of us is perfect, but the man who wins my heart will be the one who will take the time to know me fully, quirks and all, and cherish me just the way I am. And I respond the same, in kind.

How about we go to Barnes & Noble and get coffee or tea...whatever you prefer, then walk the aisles. You can show me all the subjects that light you up, and I can show you mine. We’ll know more about each other after an hour than we would after 10 “normal” dates.