I'm a big woman with a mind and opinions of her own.

I love my kids very much and they almost always come first in my life.

I'm very independent and what some would call an old soul.

I enjoy listening to all kinds of music, in my mp3 player right now I have everything from Jan & Dean, The Beatles and The Who to AC/DC, Metallica and Disturbed. I like watching old surfer movies and an occasional 'shot 'um up' movie never hurts.

I'm a very honest person (why bs about something when you'll only be found out later)and often say exactly what I think or don't say anything.

Bit of that honesty;
I've discovered recently that it's time for me to let people take care of me. Before I thought that to ask for help was to be needy (life lesson NOT baggage). Now I've learned that it takes more courage for me to ask for help then it ever did just to do it myself. But it's still very hard for me to ask. HOWEVER by no means am I asking anyone to throw me a 24/7/365 pity party, I am NOT one who feels sorry for herself often or for very long when it happens, I like to deal and move on. And relax I'm not out for your money!!! I just want someone to consider me when doing anything.

I'm not sure what makes me unique, my sense of haha is a little warped, but then most of the people I went to school with have the same problem I think the water in the pool is contaminated, and any one who went to KCI knows of what I speak, lol.

I'm not shy by any sense of the imagination I just know who I am and I know that there are not many men who are into big women. Sometimes you find what you're looking for if you look past the packaging.

I've put dating under that question but really I'm looking for that one date that may lead to a lasting relationship.

If I've forgotten anything just ask I'll answer, there's that honesty again.



Please note: currently I am only separated HOWEVER there is no need to worry I will NEVER even consider reconciling with my ex, I simply can not afford the divorce as I am to busy supporting our kids.

Well to start I am NOT, REPEAT NOT looking for a bed buddy, phone friend or on line lover, so if that's all you want click next.

What I'd like to do on a first date, coffee and conversation at Timmy's.

A walk along the river (if the strike ever ends and they mow the lawns).

Maybe dinner and a movie or dinner and dancing.