Hello to all and thanks for stopping in.I'm a lady that hasn't dated for 6 yrs and has been celibut as well.I chose to be as healthy as can be and waiting to meet the last love of my life.I was married for 14yrs and have been divorced since 1994.I then became a widow in April of 1996 and that was the hardest part of my life but I had to find a way to get past it and with my strong faith I did!I chose to come into POF to meet people that are hopefully honest and have integrity and good,kind and spiritual hearts.I am a sensuous lady about alot of things and I am very honest and forthrite.If you're looking for barbie then not meaning to be rude but please pass me by!If you're looking for just sex then by all means pass!If you've ever had an intimate encounter with a person of the same sex PLEASE pass me up!If you're looking to meet a very honest,happy,funloving easy going lady then you should read further!I love to go to movies,plays and have a good meal.I'm just as content to stay home and cook better to have someone to cook with or flirt with me while I'm cooking and cozy up and watch a good movie.No devil movies thank you!I've been told that I'm a good cook and I can bake and decorate cakes as well.I'm open to lots of different things like camping,outside show,dancing's a must,walks wherever but not up a steep hill.I walked Diamond Head in Oahu and that was good enough.I love to sing and have a good conversation about good things.If you have lots of female friends please pass me by and if your ex's are still hangin around I pass because I've been there and didn't like it!If you're living with females then please stay there!If you're looking for an honest,caring,loving,fun,kind-hearted lady then please apply! When I'm calming myself,I crochet,I took dance lessons for 10yrs and taught the elderly for a while which was so heartfelt and fun for them as well as me.I love watching movies with my grandchildren and dancing with them also.I Love to spend time with family which is very important to me as I'm part Italian so family is even a must and holds a high importantance.Everyone is unique in their own way and I've experienced alot in my life that has made me a very spiritual person.I am happy and love to laugh and have a great time in whatever I do.I like tatoos and have some that all tell a little bit about who I am and why they're there.I am at a point in my life where I don't like game playing,because you don't mess with peoples emotions.If you're not seeking what I am then be honest and nicely say this is not for me.What I would do on a first date would depend on where we went and how the day or evening was progressing.I'm very easy to get along with and have my opinions like everyone else.I'm very easy going as well.I don't like yelling and cussing as that shows a sign of ignorance and there are other ways to express oneself in a positive way.I'm not perfect and can cuss if I'm upset,but would rather say nothing than have a cussing match.It doesn't sound pretty coming out of a womans mouth nor does it sound any better coming out of a mans. So there you are some things about myself.I don't judge a person on outside appearances as it's what's inside that definitely makes the best impression and I feel it should be that way from both sides.The pics that are posted are exact,but I'm not twiggy and women are judged so harshly and I feel that's totally wrong as we are all beautiful in our own way!Thanks again for stopping in and Good Luck in making your choices!!!!

A first date would be an agreement of two people meeting at a certain agreed upon spot.Having a glass of iced tea and or maybe lunch or dinner depending on a nice conversation and whether there's an attraction to take us further than just that drink and or lunch.If we can be honest and say hey this is nice and working or sorry it's not,but thank you for taking the time to meet and good luck to you.Sometimes it's a slow process which is okay and if it's too hard then it's not meant to be.