I'm not one of those people who knows exactly what she is looking for. Pretty sure I'll know it when I find it though. I guess I could sum it up by saying I am looking for someone who is looking to take things very slowly and not looking for a full time commitment from the first coffee date.

I am very independant and love my alone time but would like to have someone to do things with from time to time. Eventually, if both of us are on the same page, moving on to long term would be ideal but rushing things is just a huge turn off for me.

I have a small family but am very close to them. My friends are very important to me. I have a cat that I adore so please don't be allergic :)

I don't have a whole lot of must haves. I am very tall so being taller than me would be nice but certainly not a deal breaker. I have quit and started smoking many times. I'll quit for good one day.

My goal in life is like most other people.......to be happy and I think even more than that to feel content.

Worry about a first date after the first meeting.