SORRY GUYS I FOUND MY FISH! GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!!!



I am a single mother of 3 kids. I was married for 8 years to a man who ignored me the last 3 years of our marriage and so i decided against my morals and rules to end it almost 5 years ago. I was in a serious and very stressful relationship for 4 years and I was severely hurt in this past relationship. I have been single for about 8 months now. I tend to choose men who use me for their self satisfaction because i am very good to my significant other. I am loyal, affectionate, devoted, and very caring. im also very outgoing, social, and love to have fun. I love being spontaneous, planning things last minute and jumping into things. I honestly sometimes dont think things through before i do them, but not to the point where i end up screwing myself or my kids. I always think about my kids before i do anything. At the same time I am very organized and obsessive. I dont like to start something i cant finish and i devote myself to doing the best i can do when doing anything. Im pretty much drama free (everyone has some kind of drama) and dont like to be involved in drama. I dont like games and more then anything I hate people who cant follow through and or let me down. I try my best to keep promises and dont make them if i dont believe i can keep them and expect the same from anyone in my life. I dont have alot of CLOSE friends, i have a hard time letting people into my life because i have been used and screwed so many times. I do have alot of friends (acquaintances)as i can pretty much get along with everyone and anyone. I have never had a problem with people not liking me. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh. Along with all the outgoing things i like to do i also enjoy being a homebody. I love to cook, snuggle on the couch in front of the TV or a movie, i like to lay in bed and talk all night about random things, i love to clean and i love to stay in bed all day with my honey and let the dishes pile up! All in all, my personality is very flexible, changes moment to moment, and i can adjust to almost any environment. I think this is why i get along with most people. I am attractive and alot of people like to assume im conceited but once they get to know me they quickly prove themselves wrong. I care about my looks and try to take care of myself. I have modeled in my past but found that is not the life for me. I do tend to attract the wrong type of men because of my looks and im sick of the fakes! all of my relationships have been "accidental". i met the guy not ever having a thought in my head about being in a relationship with him. but then i got to know him and then ended up in a relationship.

I am looking for a MAN (not a boy who never grew up just got taller) who can at the appropriate time let go of his inner child. I have kids so being able to be on their level at times is a must! I need someone who is not afraid of affection, loves to kiss, and cuddle. Someone who is devoted and spends the day thinking about how he can make me happy. I love riding quads and camping so you must know how to ride! I grew up riding ATV's and i will be riding till the day i die. Im not really big on looks because your personality makes your looks. I do prefer a man who is well taken care of and cares about their appearance but you dont have to have a six pack and a face like a model. Who you are inside and how you treat me and my children is most important to me. I do want a man who is not a dead beat and has his stuff together. You must have a job and a car and no baggage. I understand almost everyone these days is in some kind of debt, but i dont want someone who cant finance a candy bar because he has so much debt. I cant say im a total angel and debt free, im divorced, and with divorce comes some debt.
Im not going to give away everything about myself on here otherwise there will be nothing left for us to talk about to get to know eachother. So if you are seriously interested then lets talk, if youre not, please dont waist my time. I dont have alot of it so i only want to talk to you if you are serious about a SERIOUS relationship, im not into anything "casual" or short term so please dont bother if this is you.