Has anyone ever expressed SHOCK about, why you have never been married with no kids and have so much going on? Well, I get that all the time and wish I had THE ANSWER. At my age, I've also never even lived with a man besides my father and brothers and that was when I was a kid - SCARY huh? And now like everyone else, I'm starting to wonder what the deal is.

I was born in New Mexico, the Land of Enchantment, Albuquerque to be exact. I've been to pow-wows and know how to camp and survive in the mountains through a snow storm. I also have a masters degree in Theology, and have traveled as a missionary to about 11 different countries, most 3rd World, over a 12 year span. All of my travels were incredible, and I'd love to do more. My last overseas stay of 3 years was to Trinidad and Tobago. "Hey Mon" don't worry be happy (smile).

Of recent, I managed a project for the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation; I've also owned and operated my own cooking business entitled, "Ms. Yummy Tummy's" home cooked meals delivery service. On high-end,I dated a multi-millionaire turned billionaire for the space of about 4 years way back when...and truly believe "good" comes in all colors, no prejudices here. I wonder if all that spoiling ruined me..lol!

If the man of my dreams exists, I'd like to be his complement, refuge and friend.

My favorite quote is this: "I choose gentleness...nothing is won by force. I choose to be gentle. If I raise my voice, may it only be in praise. If I clench my fist, may it only be in prayer. If I make a demand, may it only be of myself." Max Lucado

On a first date, I'd like to put on a nice dress and some smell good and meet my hot handsome date for a nice dinner.