IM NOT UR AVERAGE, EVERYDAY GURL...NOT BY FAR!! LOL! I FIT NO MOLD!!

OH,YEAH....BEN HARPER...FOREVER. Great song!! Download it or go to azlyrics.com and at least read the lyrics. Should give you a pretty idea of what it is im wanting. Put it this way....i want to find MY forever a home.

I really miss being in love. I miss running to the door and having someone to jump up and wrap my legs around. I miss kissing....god i love to kiss! Kissing is very intimate!! I miss PASSION!! I want someone to fall asleep on while watching a movie. Someone to just up and say lets go do this and we go do it....like taking off on a trip last minute. I want that kind of love that everyday when i wake up, i wake up smiling because life just cant get any better because ur FINALLY with who you were meant to be with. I am happy...but i kno i can be happier if that makes sense. I want honesty...not a liar and manipulator. Been there-done that-divorced that!! I love to do almost anything. Going to football games especially, dancing, camping, going to the beach or lake, boating, lookin for fossils at the creek with my kids (even have in the rain), playin golf-only have a few times, but thoroughly enjoyed it, reading, painting, sketching, rollerblading, getting ppl together for a game of some sorts...even kickball! (dont laff...its fun) Going to concerts, live music, walking around beale or bourbon. Craps and blackjack....ive even taught my son how to play texas hold em. I even like to play guitar hero...and i kick ass!

Im tired of guys asking me "And why are you not with someone?" PLEASE!! thats an easy question to answer.....i havent found what i want!! well...i kno what i want in a man and i wont settle for anything less. I want my own personal little fairytale!! And only i understand the meaning of that last statement....well, me and i kno one other person but there isnt many ppl that ive shared that with.

I like nice things but dont care that much about money. so dont go thinking im after yours or anyone's money because thats just isnt who i am. Ive had plenty of opportunity/offers to be with a man for their money and its just not in me to do it. i have to LOVE who im with! NO EXCEPTIONS!! I love my job and bring work home with me sometimes. Im a perfectionist too! Im OCD and ADD...im an organized mess! I love to take naps! Having said that, i dont sleep much at nite. Im a nite owl by nature. Im not a morning person AT ALL!! I sing loud in my car and haha YES i even play the air drums!! Sometimes u just cant help urself u kno?? Oh yeah....im the "cool mom" as my oldest daughter and her friends say.

Anyway, back to the being happy part. Im finally happy with me and who i am...quirks and all. they make me who i am and dont plan on changing for anyone! I have finally found that confidence in myself thats been there all these years hiding or too scared to come out. i say what i want; do what i want. IM A SCORPIO THRU AND THRU....u mite not can handle it! just kidding! lol (seriuosly tho....read up about us)haha Oh except the jealousy part...not really me.

I like muscles!!!!!! OMG do i like muscles. Not necessarily bulging but you get the idea. My favorite are the ones across the tops of a guys shoulders....especially when i can see them when....well...ill leave that one alone for now. HA! I love a great smile! I love to see a man's eyes light up and sparkle when they see me. I like dark complections. Dont like readheads. Sucker for blue or green eyes but like the depth of dark brown eyes too. Dress nice! Open doors for a lady..it doesnt hurt one bit, i promise! Dont blow my phone up! I cant handle an insecure man! Please have manners and use them especially when eating. If your job requires you to travel-it doesn't bother me. Im a big girl and im not scared to be alone. A confident(but not overly..well maybe a little),articulate, and quirky, sarcastic sense of humor!

I am a mother of 3 great children-girl, boy, girl-15,11, and 10 respectively. SOOOO all of you out there lookin for just a hook-up, dont play games with me like ur accepting of my children. LEAVE ME BE and go on to the next profile. For those that just might actually be seriously looking to have someone to love, please know that i have AMAZING children. Not like most and not being bias either.

I like most genres of music with a few exceptions. I have lived in Atlanta, Whidbey Island (just north of Seattle) and Jacksonville, FL-I really miss Jax-that was home. AND i cant wait to get the hell out of here! Just cant figure out where i want to move. Working on that one daily! I read The Odyssey last summer and truly loved it-hence the user name.

I like having a reason to get all dolled up for a "fancy" dinner but am just as comfortable in cutoffs, flip-flops, baseball cap and no make-up. As far as my hair goes, i love it!! its funky and unexpected just like me. it fits me to a tee! Although i have found it to be somewhat intimidating to both men and women...not sure why tho. I am stubborn to an extent. I THINK I CAN DO ANYTHING AND WILL TRY! I don't like asking people for help. Its actually a downfall of mine.

I have AWESOME friends and AWESOME kids! just missing one thing!!

Up for just about anything! U name it and im prolly in! OH OH OH WAIT!! FORGOT SOMETHING......im not looking for a "hook-up" either! so if thats what uve got on ur mind....next please! Got enough offers for that off the website. If thats what i wanted, Id say it in my headline LOUD AND CLEAR!!