I try not to limit myself when it comes to new people. I find enjoyment in so many things that I never would have thought possible. I finally figured out that it's not getting there...it's the journey you take to get there. I tend to be very trusting in the human spirit. Even though I've gotten burned a few times, I still feel like "The risk you take is the fortune you make." I also enjoy chillin'on Sundays at an outdoor eatery with some smooth jazz and a margarita on the rocks, no salt, shaken-not stirred.(LOL!)
******Spoiler Alert******
I am a person who believes in being upfront & honest about things so here's the deal;
If any of the following characterizations apply to you, please do not message me...
1.You are overweight and beyond "a few extra pounds" I won't go into any more detail.
2.You are over 49...trust me , there's someone out there for you, it's just not me.
3.You feel like we are "soul mates" yet we have never met or even talked on the phone

I think I would suggest someplace close to where SHE lives...to stay within her comfort zone. I would take us to a Dave & Buster's or Jillian's(where a grown-up can be a kid). We'd start off with drinks and conversation, then dinner and fun. I'm competitive by nature but I can concede defeat if I encounter the right opponent. Like Tiger on Sunday. I'm easy!