Now is the time of my life where I am finally getting more time for myself. I have basically raised 2 boys for the last 4 years. The oldest is at the University of Oregon, and the youngest is 15 years old is a Junior in High School. 1 and 1/2 more years and he is off to college. We spend about 2-3 days a weeks playing tennis/golf, live on a private golf course so have access to weight room and swimming as well. As to what I want for the next 10 years--I am hoping to slow down a bit, I would love to go on romantic vacations and spend more time relaxing. I have traveled quite a bit already mostly cruises to the Carribeans and would like to spend more time in Hawaii, California, Florida, NY, Bahamas etc, and lots more trips to Victoria, South Amercia and have taken annual trips to Palm Springs/Palm Dessert.
I try to look at this from an optimistic point of view and like to think that anything is possible. Life is to be lived--cherish every moment with your kids and love ones. I am active for someone my age--I still play in tennis tournaments and am ranked in the Northwest.
The picture is my two boys--they played in the State Tennis Championships. My pic is rather boring--but I think I am rather conservative in my life style,--to an extent. The other pic is my sisters 70th birthday--.
With my eldest out of the house and I have custody of the youngest about 60% of the time, it's time that I start living the rest of my life.

The first date is more or less a get to know the person. I would prefer coffee/restaurant where we have an opportunity to talk--get to know one another. It's important to be honest and be straight with one another from day one.