Im updating this because I guess I haven't made myself very clear. Im 36 yr old professional grown up! I know where I have been, I know where I'm going and I know what I want. Im looking to meet someone that I can get to know and create a life with. It seems like the kind of guys I keep running into are men whos profiles say they want a long term relationship but they are either still hooked on an x gf or wife, or they are so scorned they hate all women and either dont want a serious relationship or are not ready for one.

I dont want to be your mother, your councilor, your mental punching bag, your ATM machine, your boss, or your bed warmer.
What I want to be is your friend, your partner, your equal, and your lover.

Im looking for a MAN, that knows what he wants in a mate and in life, someone who knows where he is going and working on getting there or there. If you dont have kids that doesnt bother me, but you must at least like kids and not afraid to be around them because my kids are very important part of my life. If you want a baby of your own, Im sorry I cant have any more. I would be willing to adopt with the right person. If you have your own kids that's wonderful, I love children. I know well enough that with kids comes a little bit of baby mamma drama and I can deal with that as long as its being dealt with. And I do promise to treat them as they are my own, because I wont settle for anything less when it comes to my own children.

I hope this doesnt come off to harsh I just feel as if there are to many people on here that say one thing but do another and I don't want to waste anyone's time.

Just hang out together and talk and share each others story. Everyone has a story whats yours.