Free time? I work on my castle and keep a black labrador happy. Long time music lover, producer and enthusiast. Beach/salt/sand nut at heart. Goals? To stay optimistic and shake hands with my age anymore. I'm trustworthy, loyal and remain healthy. Quite independent. I strive to be funny, light-hearted, generous and clever. Very passionate. Experiences have led me to realize what mattered and what didn't in life. Have learned to enjoy the smaller moments. A beer in hand under the stars on a cool Fall night with a fire in the chiminea with music and torches lit. Serenity makes me smile. Have learned the "truths of life" so-to-speak...that family matters most and sharing life is how it's suppose to progress. Proud, loving uncle to 5. Singledom was overrated. I'm a man aware of male culture/ bonding and have never needed adventure and bravado to feel like somebody. I've was always been secure with myself and never lacked confidence in me. A strong, loving and intelligent Mother helped that...and a Marine Father taught me principle, respect and integrity. I learned so much though socially the hard way...as with most men my age. If you're willing to take a chance on a guy that had the light come one late in life well then I'm worth the time. This whole thing is crazy anyways. I don't claim to have all the answers but I do know what matters. I work out of my heart...to me that's the true religion and honesty with yourself. Just looking for a chance to love again...is all.

First dates are easy since I don't arrive with expectations anymore. When you're in your youth you get all geared up, expectant and nervous. But as you get seasoned and experienced you realize that it's best to relax, be kind, and just friggin' pay attention. Conversation over a beer/coffee is a good start to get me to open up.