I am very Down to Earth, Honest, Independant(Tall). I prefer tall men whom take care of themselves physically, guy's I like to wear heels so no Shorty's, no offense but come on? I am looking for a friend first, dating, then relationship and longterm so if your looking for something else please don't email me.

I am confident and forward but have been told I also have a shy side that is humble and not arrogant. My friends like to hang out with me because I'm a fun, easy going and laid back, I'm not a fighter and I don't like games so please don't play any. I like to go dancing, shoot pool, bowling etc... But I also can be a home body and love to cook, garden or hang out and just watch a movie. I love anything outdoors, hiking, biking, camping, crabbing, Fishing etc...

I was quite out of the dating scene for awhile, I was married for 16 yrs, divorced now and dating the past 2+ years. My ex-husband was African American and I have 3 teenagers who mean the world to me. I work Full-time and go to school Full-time but I try to keep my weekends free to take a break and hangout.

I'm looking for someone real, who is upfront and who speaks their mind without being pushy or controlling but I do like a man to be a man and be assertive. I'd like them to have goals, ambitions, be independant and secure in themselves as well as have good morals and standards (no players please, I'm too old for that).

I am looking for someone who is honest, faithful, secure, christian and who bases who he dates not only on looks but on brains and personality because I think those are my best attributes. I'm looking for someone with similar interests as me but also different interests because I want and like to try and experience new things.

Something interesting and different for a change of pace, make a plan and surprise me...