I'm interested in finding an attractive "real" man, a gentleman. He should be physically fit, and a wine lover. Attractive can be many things, good self esteem, success, and how you carry yourself. Maturity is important to me also. I am not looking for someone who has no drive for success, or someone who thinks inside the box because it's safer there.

Must be a music lover, and appreciate arts and entertainment. One dimensional people do not interest me in the least; I feel sad for them.

Saying you are honest and being honest are two different things. Honesty and truth are of the utmost importance to me. Women want to be cherished. This does not mean we want to be controlled.

Kids don't matter, our chemistry does. Heart accompanied with Heat, I believe that it takes both.

I'm a dog lover, absolutely! I also adore my 4 nieces.

I enjoy being with a man who is interested and comfortable in all aspects of music, sports, social settings, and family situations. I like a man who respects the adventure, and can also hang out in the back yard with a nice beverage of choice.

I adore a "real man" who loves his family, and respects himself enough to take good care of himself and enjoys his home life. And who respects women's point of view, even though we are from Venus. Men think logically, women think emotionally...And Women think logically and men think emotionally as well. We're all just people and most of us all want the same thing, we just express it differently!

A successful man is a happy man, so that's attractive to me - and find it very attractive when a man is focused, and shows up on time, with a great big smile, a bottle of my favorite wine, and a good attitude.

Socially adaptable is preferred! I am blessed with lots of friends. I love to do anything from shooting hoops to four wheeling, dining out or cooking in. And I laugh a lot. I'm usually walking around smiling.

I am looking for someone who is my partner, in a committed (scary word) relationship. Just one special man. I am active and independent, and have loads of charties and friends I deal with weekly.

No cigarette smokers please.

Also please take things slowly, which a lady prefers. Dating has it's challenges, slow and steady!

I'm not perfect, nor do I expect perfection. Life is way too short, get messy and have fun! Never loose your childlike curiosity!

This depends on the weather, time of year, and mutual interests. I am not much into the "lets have coffee" approach, because I feel we both deserve better! I enjoy outdoor patios sipping my favorite wine with an interesting and well traveled man.