Unfortunatly,work has robbed me of very much free time to do much of anything anymore,but when I get some spare time,I try to spend it with my son,watching football,movies,reading books,or listening to music.I also love to cook.

My goals:
Personally: Forge a strong(er)relationship with my son,have a successful relationship the 2nd time around.Try to keep improving as a person every day while realizing that I'm not perfect and that I'm going to make mistakes.

Professionaly: Graduate from the Ohio Peace Officers Academy and(hopefully)achieve a position as an Ohio Peace Officer.

My taste in music: anything but Rap,R&B,Soul and Disco.Country is ok. I like listening to Blues a lot.I also like Rock and Roll,Heavy Metal and Seattle scene(where have you all gone)LOL! My favorite musician is Chris Cornell,formally of Soundgarden and Audioslave.

Finally,description of myself/ unique perspective:

I want to start off by saying the site doesn't allow you to choose multiple relationship preferences,therefore,I selected Long Term as my relationship prefence. Actually,I would like to start out as friends,then date,then possibly a long term relationship. I think this goes without saying but,just in case it doesn't,I don't want there to be any false pretenses.
I could sit here and type out a bunch of B.S. about how I'm so fun,interesting,kind,energetic,reliable,responsible,like walks in the park and blah,blah,blah.The fact of the matter is this:I'm not perfect.Do not expect perfection because you will be dissapointed.

I also think that I should list my faults in addition to my strenghts.People always tell you about their positives and never mention the negatives.The negatives eventually display themselves and you are left scratching your head saying"Who is this person"? I am a BIG procrastinator(my biggest fault),impatient,and am(sometimes)judgemental.I hope I don't come across as being too negative,but I believe in being as honest as I possibly can.

For my strenghts,I'm fun,interesting,kind,energetic,reliable,responsible,like walks in the park and blah,blah,blah......just kidding! I would sum up my best qualities as being thoughtful,compassionate,respectful,loyal,well-mannered,sincere,affectionate and insightful.

I also should mention what I am looking for in a woman:
Friendly,affectionate,have a high moral compass,compassionate,honest,loyal and forgiving.IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK??!!

I would like to spend some time getting to know them without the feeling there has to be constant dialogue in order to feel comfortable.Probably dinner,a walk,a cup of coffee and pie.Just somewhere where we can talk.