I am 42, although most would say I don't look it. I am 5' 4 1/2" with long brown hair and blue eyes. You would definitely call me voluptuous..and sexy, so if you are looking for a flat chested skinny girl, you can stop reading here. I believe it has truly taken me 40 years to know what I really want out of life. I am an entrepreneur and owner of an events company. I have successfully developed my business and reputation but cannot seem to do the same in a relationship. I know that I will meet a man who I can appreciate, respect and talk to. A man who can be my friend and my lover. Someone who I can just look at, share a common understanding and a comfortable silence. I believe I am very business savvy and street smart. I appreciate art, music, culture, travel, dining, theater, and more. I am a highly spontaneous person who always likes to try new things. Novel and unpredictable situations don't bother me; instead I find them challenging and exciting. I tend to be focused and resourceful and I am able to juggle a lot of projects at the same time; as a result I am sometimes a whirlwind of activity. I have a firm grip on reality and enjoy living in the present tense, but I also have a keen imagination that enables me to be remarkably creative. I am easy-going, humorous, able to laugh at myself, and enjoy entertaining others.

A first date in my opinion should really be a time to get to know one another. It really does not matter if we enjoy drinks, coffee, dinner or dessert...it's the conversation that counts. Can we take our eyes off each other? Do we have a lot in common? Is there a genuine interest in what we have to say to one another? I can truly enjoy myself anywhere but I can tell immediately if "you do it for me." As a passionate, sensual woman, a first date is really about attraction and intimacy. At this age, if there's no chemistry and no connection...there's no second date. It's that simple.