I really dont have any way to meet men as i am self-employed and work from home hence why i am having to deal with all the crap that comes with this on the chance of actually meeting someone nice and lonely like me .. would at least like someone to hang out with and maybe spend some less lonely times.. to me it is beter than being alone.. so if a few are out here send me a message .. : )



Get mad if you wish but i do not date black men ty
if u ad me as a fav and dont write you will be deleated : )

Not looking for a hook up..omg maybe a date or a cup of coffee and get to know someone.
Just seem to be a lot of local men on here so thought i would give it a try. Oh no married men either please.
Air boat pic is 2 years old.. other pic is 8/12/09 leave me alone if you are just looking for quicky hookups.



Oh not interested in someone who drinks everyday or in any excess if i wanted a drunk i could go to the bars!!

Can do most anything plumbing, electric can even do a bit on cars lol can sew, cook, grow the most amazing plants and totally love my critters!! yes, i am very independent yet love attention and affection.

Reason i am adding this is to try to cut down on the ones who are not interested in the same things as me..

Yeah i might scare a bunch of you off.. no worries for me.. the kind of man i want is the kind that laughs at this and shakes his head.. maybe rolls his eyes and sends me a message lol



To me it is a choice.. you can be happy even if it is something you dont like doing or be crabby and a pain.. i choose happy. I am happy doing just about anything.. have my bad days of course like we all do but i dont ruin things just casue i can lol



i am not just looking for a rich man and wont exclude a man who lives from paycheck to paycheck..it is about the person not what you have that i am most concerned with.

Seriously i live a simple but happy life.. just missing one thing.. a man to share it with.

someone that we can work together at having fun.. i dont like strife and wont be around it.. if we cant make it fun what is the point??

Things i like to do...

See a train coming run out and put a few nickels on the track and wait then look for them all smushed and flat to remember that day. Go to Mt Mitchell on a cool day get some cider walk to the top take the back side down , look at the plant that only grows there ( ten points if you know what the plant is LOL )and then go have lunch looking out over the southern us.

Yes, i love long walks on the beach but you will find me hunting sharks teeth the whole time..i have about 3000 so far and they can be found on just about any beach especially a sc beach... i also hunt arrow heads when walking / hiking all the time and have a few of them .

here is one for you.. i love shopping at walmart in the middle of the night and setting off all the toys lol

very outgoing when needed and very reserved when approrate

Again the BS some of us girls have to deal with here online can be overwhelming and make us a tad more on our guard..I am not for everyone.. everyman is not for me... that is the point of putting likes and dislikes here to try to cut down on the hurting of feelings and wasting time.

I collect lots of things mostly old glass.. depression glass .. cobalt blue bottles most of which i have dug up myself. Anything from the 70's too : )

i have to be in total trust and love to completely give myself to a man and that can take time..so if not serious about at least getting to know me then leave me alone lol

I like getting first meets over with and wont spend a lot of time getting to know someone online.

How hard is it to meet for a coffee??

Pet names i think should be reserved for when you know someone..calling me beauitful..sweetie.. sweetheart ...well i want real .. i am real.. be real with me.