My Self-Summary:
I am an independent, self reliant, well balanced and stable person. I am hoping to find a person who when I look into their eyes I see their love for me and they can see mine for them; when we are in each others arms we can feel the safety of our love. When we are apart we know we are loved unconditionally and faithfully. I am a person who values love, friendship, people and life. If you are looking for a casual affair I am not for you. I believe that we are meant to be with our best friend the one we are completely open and honest with. Building a foundation on mutual respect, friendship and love will lead to a successful union. Friends first as that is how we get to know each other inside and out. Many people leap into a relationship and then try to get to know each other. We humans tend to try to follow our decisions/words even if they are wrong for us; that is why so many people stay in a relationship that isn't right for them. Instead of making an evaluation of the issues they work endlessly to compromise them but as the foundation was not built properly there is so much baggage they just can't seem to find peace and keep reiterating the same issues, beating them to death, and then eventually splitting up usually on not so good terms. Blaming each other and never taking responsibility for not getting to know each other first. I do not do things backwards I don't like back pedaling. If you are not interested in putting forth the energy and effort to be friends first I am not for you. I realize that it doesn't always lead to more but you end up with a friend (I am a great one to have) instead of blaming each other for the lost time, heart ache and frustration. Life is short! Why continue with the pattern of repeating things that end ugly? I am open and honest and surrounded with mystery. I will not waste your time if I am just not that into you I will politely let you know. I appreciate a person who can politely let me know their just not that into me and doesn't waste my time either. I am a kind and happy person who lives life to the fullest and enjoys a plethera of adventures and activities. I hope this insight helps you make a informed decision on whether you should contact me or not. You should message me if You are genuine, intelligent, accepting of others, non controlling, Healthy, loving, patient, live a balanced lifestyle, you are mentally and emotionally stable. Have a zest for life and live with ethics, morals and by the Golden rule. Keeping yourself clean, well groomed and using a nice quiet scent is always a plus for my bionic nose. lol Please be kind and don't push me into something I am not ready for as it does not make me concede but pushes me away. Remember I am a strong and independent, balanced and stable individual. I won't push you its a matter of respect for your individuality; please return the favor. I'm looking for an honest,affectionate,intelligent person that knows how to have fun, is a good communicator, not a mind / game player, no couch potato's or drama junkies. I enjoy and appreciate the finer things in life balanced with the joy of the simple pleasures. I am intelligent, interesting, whimsicle, witty, baggage-less, attractive and kind. If you're looking for a classy lady, here I am. I'm not into a 'text' relationships, You will find me mystical and real. I work as a police sergeant in the most active city in the state and I work the streets. I have an abundance of wisdom, love and respect that I share with all; I am however a presence to be reckoned with should the situation arise. Most people who know me say "I have never met any one like you in my life." You will find me unique and unlike any person you have ever encountered.

I would like to meet somewhere that a conversation could be heard and has a comfortable ambience.