i'm told i am too easy going....not sure if that's the case but i don't like playing games THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER GOOD THINGS TO DO!.....cherish my friends and my family......would love to find that special guy and leave this place!!

I guess you would say i am pretty passionate about my job....talking with people with the hope of helping them solve some of their problems is what i do... ....can be a bit too serious but it's probably what i do best (so yours will seem minute to me!!) but i come here to get away from problems so please.....no sad ex tales ok? promise i won't, if you don't!

I have a 5 month old king charles cavalier spaniel who is currently destroying all of my belongings (only the expensive one's mind you!) and i also have an sweet 17 yr old cat who shuffles around.....


I like intelligent men....that is the most important thing to me, so if you have a few smarts. then i'm your girl!!....and if they look good that is ok by me too....a bonus!!
like every other female....i like to look good....no that doesnt mean high maintenance.....but i like clothes, and perfume etc...
Say hi and we can talk about it ok? i dont bite! well not hard anyway!


i don't scare easily and i think i am pretty fair..IF YOU ARE MARRIED DONT BOTHER OK? that will just majorly annoy me! AND COULD ALL OF THE 25 yr old boys that want to do me a favour....ITS OK, i will be just fine!!

I have a few pets, so if you are a pet lover that would be wonderful!

____first date? .....hmmmm let me think.....well its always easy to go and have a coffee just to see how things go......and if they go well...who knows? i am a great cook so perhaps a meal? maybe a walk along the beach (i'm thinking all the beaches are currently full of first daters from online dating sites who have been filling out questions like this!!....THE BEACHES ARE ERODED!!) main thing is that its fun and no pressure! and better than talking here forever!! **