It's the Holiday Season......just a quick update to wish each of you a safe and happy Holiday. May 2010 be the year when all your wishes, hopes, dreams and desires become reality.

Let's see....I think I'm a pretty regular person....giving, kind, caring.....sassy, a bit of a smartass at times....fun...yes, sensual and loving as well. I can cook, I have a good job, a car and a roof over my head. Hey, look.....it's the perfect woman.....LOL. No, seriously, I'm far from perfect and I like it that way...perfection carries FAR too much pressure to maintain and I go for a lower maintenance version of life. I like to live life with heart.....with passion....if you're going to do something, I believe it's worth giving it your all. Go for it. It's better to reach out boldly to capture your dream even if you fall short than to give up on that dream without even trying. And yes.....it's still not about waiting for the storm to pass......it's about learning to dance in the rain....Looking for someone with a similar outlook. Someone who is interested in getting to know someone to see if there's that spark. I don't do drama or controlling and manipulative games and appreciate the same from others. Honesty and respect are my expectations....the rest is nothing but a hope or perhaps a dream......

I wish you all the best......

I think we've forgotten the fine art of dating.....like the kiss, it is something that should be anticipated and savored. I love spontaneity, but there's something enjoyable in planning a little ahead sometimes....the e-mails....the texts...the phone calls leading up to a good date that make it that much more fun. I think this is especially true for a first date...so if your first contact with people on here is "Hey, wanna have coffee or a drink tonight?" then we probably wouldn't be a good fit.