well to start with, i am a widow. i am an easy going person, like simple things in life.would like to find someone to do things with and spend time together and see where it may lead us.i like to cook,watch movies, about real life events and love stories, mysteries.i like the 70's rock music,blues,country, easy listening, r&b.i think what makes me unique is my way of reaching people that have problems in their lives and need a good friend as advice giver or just being a good friend. i am very easy to get along with and love to help people. i guess i just want to continue being happy with life and enjoying my family and finding love again with a good man.

on a first date i would like to meet him somewhere in public. maybe go for dinner or to the lake or picnic.we could go to one anothers home if we both feel comfortable with that.i live in a log home out in the country. its very peaceful here and also have a nice little creek with a waterfall thats very relaxing to hear.i am a great cook, or we could grill out steaks or whatever. on a first date, i like to be where we can talk and get to know one another without a lot of interruption, or distractions. one on one communicating.