*** Please know what you are looking for and want in a relationship/friendship before contacting me. I do appreciate the emails, but please read my profile first. If I don't match what you're looking for than why settle? I know I won't and you shouldn't either. I am not into serial dating, never have and never will. I guess that would be the Virgo in me. I am looking to spend time with ONE person and focus on getting to know ONE person. With that being said...

My friends describe me as fun-loving with a sociable personality. I am independent, have a good sense of humor and enjoy people from all walks of life. Direct and honest with my feelings, I enjoy a stimulating conversation. I have a caring heart and am a loyal friend. I'm easy going, curious and love to laugh. Love to cook and entertain, enjoying the company of friends, family and that special someone. Enjoy most outdoor activities as well as spending time at home. I like all sports (love going to basketball and baseball games-Sox & Cubs), the Bears and tailgating!! Love camping, fishing, grilling out, listening to music, dining, movies, going to concerts (indoor & outdoor), photography, reading and traveling to visit family and friends. I do spend alot of time in Ponte Vedra Beach and Bonita Spgs/Naples/Marco Isl, FL. Flexible schedule and would love to meet someone that can join me in my travels. Your destination or mine...it's all good. I would love to get back into one of my favorite hobbies of wine making and home brewing beer with a good group of friends. Family is important to me. I don't have any children but enjoy having them around as they always keep us on our toes.

Seriously, looking for a one woman man, monogamous relationship, the one I wake up to, smile and know he is the one.
I'm looking to meet someone who is confident and secure yet considerate and sensitive, and not afraid to say what's on their mind. I believe Communication and honesty, trust and respect for each other are key to a solid relationship. Looking for that special someone who wants to focus on a relationship, someone real, genuine and honest. Though I would like to spend the time to become friends first. I do believe in following the Golden Rule. I don't go for looks, they can deceive, and wealth can fade away. I want my life-partner to feel like he is IT for me, but not take advantage of it. Chemistry is important and we'll know if we have it when we meet. Can't see it but you can feel it. "Almost divorced" does not count!


Some might think I'm asking for a lot but I'm really not. I don't expect anyone to change for me and vice versa. Just have a positive attitude, be happy and be true to yourself. I do meditate/read daily and very much into spirituality...nothing compares to being able to connect with someone mind, body & soul. I believe you should never lose your individuality when in a relationship. Don't confuse yourself with the two. The right person should make your life better. You should share your passions with each other and learn new things together. To be able to express our thoughts, dreams, desires, hopes and fears with each other and feel the closeness and special bond between two people in love and know that no one can take that away. You can't put a price on that and something money can't buy. I don't want to rush anything or I'd miss out on the best part, falling in love with my best friend. It should all come naturally. Honesty is a must. I don't usually give second chances though I am very patient.

I wish everyone the best in finding someone special...



"The ego can easily be pumped by a look, but the heart can only be pumped by genuine feeling"

"He touched my heart...I smiled...He touched my body...I melted...He touched my mind...I learned...He touched my soul...I became His" ~ This and so much more is possible

Wow...this should be easy...Letting your guard down because you want too while having a blast!!!