I am a big and handsome man, so if you need skinny and a tight butt, sorry. I use no drugs. I have no drinking problems of ANY kind. About the only recreational drinking I would do is wine with a fire and my lover. if I had one. :)
Your age isn't a big issue for me one way or the other. I don't need to reclaim my youth. I never lost the best parts of it. I am hunter, fisher, and entrepreneur; sensitive and caring, strong and unafraid of life. I am blue jeans, hoodies, dvd movies, and steak. I can, however, prepare a 5 course meal. I've rocked my babies to sleep and changed their diapers. My eyes fill when I feel the loss of their innocence.

I am looking for someone to love have that returned; someone who can bring the feminine into my life and I will bring everything I can into hers. . Forever. To Laugh with and share time with a good female friend would be a good beginning. I love women, the way you look and sound and feel. The smell of your hair when we hug, the taste of your lips. I have missed having my senses filled with a woman. What I lack in youthful stamina and physique I will make up for in attention, imagination, and caring. I can hold a woman all night, talk, laugh, advise, share, and enjoy evenings in front of the fire with wine and thee. I think the brain is the sensual sexual center, and the face is my favorite body part,... usually.

I don't want to spend the next years running all over the world trying to make up for lost time. I haven't lost any, and hope you haven't. I love to take trips with flexible planning, exploring the world as we go. Out every night and many parties aren't me either. Eating out and movies are good. BTW, why does everyone worry some much about that damned glass and whether it is half full or half empty? Everybody knows the real question is WHY you can't get the children to clean up after themselves put the thing in the dish washer!!

A perfect day would be waking up to a surprise snow storm, with coffee and makings of hot chocolate laid by. Watching the snow through the windows, warm under the blanket, cuddling and talking. Later a fire in the fireplace and exploring the woods and ponds and being happy with the company and the beauty. Night would bring a long soak in the hot tub, under the stars and puffing frost breath. At least, I think that would be pretty nice.

If we meet, we will look for chemistry. Sometimes just one feels it, sometimes the other. That can be sad and a little embarrassing. But, if we can find each other it will have been a grand journey. Meeting is no risk if we both smile and promise truth and kindness. I promise.