Looking for the love of my life. My goals and aspirations - to be happy every day to see my partner, my significant other (whatever designation you choose to call that person). To find a man who can appreciate my "naughty and nice" sides. To enjoy the simplest things in life and "not sweat the small stuff". To never go to sleep angry. To have passion and affection in my life. Some one who believes that family is important and enjoys spending at least some time with mine and theirs. My hobbies - I do love my work but it ends at the end of my work day. Having a garden to grow beautiful and delicious things in. Spending time with my dogs. What makes me unique is that it is nearly impossible to get me angry. I am the eternal optimist and I always see the glass as half full. I speak my mind, don't hold anything back, and enjoy life. I like all different kinds of music- pop, jazz, country, oldies, but generally not into rap. Looking for a man who knows that great sex starts long before you get to the bedroom. I want a man who understands the benefit of treating a woman well and spoiling her. The man I seek would know that chivalry is not dead and is actually a very sexy trait.

A first date - I would really want the guy to plan it....part of the whole romance and dating thing. Drinks, dinner, a walk, the boardwalk, a carnival, a wine tasting, a street fair, could go on for quite a while.... Had a GREAT first date at a Yankee game a couple of years ago... but that one did not work out although the first date was GREAT!!! Drinks and maybe dinner seem like the simplest to see if we click.