I have an interesting life. I've been self-employed since 2002 - and it's not easy sometimes - but I get to do a lot of cool things. I travel regularly and get to meet tons of people. The problem is that most of the people I meet are older than me. I guess I'm hoping to meet someone who is a bit more age-appropriate.

I admit it. I ~may~ work too much. But that doesn't mean I don't enjoy long philosophical conversations or going out for a few drinks in the evening or cooking a great meal or hiking around the reservoir or spending an entire day in bed with my better half. It just means I'm a goal-oriented person and am generally happier when I'm making progress in life.

I’m about 5’9” and weigh 175 pounds. I go to the gym most mornings - it's mental therapy as much as physical therapy. If you're into astrology, I’m an Aquarius. I tend to be very social in social settings but focused when trying to get stuff done. I don’t watch a lot of TV but would enjoy watching a few movies all snuggled up on the couch. In the fall months, I also like spending rainy Sunday afternoons watching football.

I like hiking but don't go as often as I'd like. I’m polite but cuss like a sailor at times. A long time ago, I took salsa lessons and just started going again. It's fun but would be way better if I had a consistent partner. Chocolate is good. I love dinner parties and enjoy cooking good food and drinking good wine with good friends. And if we're going out, my vote is for sushi or Thai food.

ABOUT YOU. You are an intelligent and curious girl who loves being female and enjoys looking beautiful and wearing your favorite underwear. You have a career you're passionate about but also want to find a true 'life partner' and build an amazing family together. You are a BIG communicator (just like me) and need honest communication to be happy in a relationship. In short, you are perfect (kidding, sort of - you know what I mean). The important ones are: you're curious and a good communicator ... and of course, there needs to be an attraction!

Something simple. Hot coffee or cold drinks - take your pick. Besides, the second date is always more fun.