I am 38 year old separated mother of 2. I stay busy wth working and I just graduated from College in May. I am working on getting my Coding Certification. I work at a Hospital in St. Louis and was just promoted to a coding position. It has been a long road but well worth it. I have worked hard to get here and it has paid off. I'm doing exactly what I want to do. I really love my job and love where I work. I have 2 children, a 6 year old boy and a 5 year old girl. They are the most important thing in my life. With school and work, I didn't get to spend much time with them as I wanted but they understood that mommy was trying to do what she can to make a better life for them. Now that I'm just working days now I can spend more time with them. I try to do alot with them on the weekends. I'm very close to my children. I'm also very close to my family. I have one brother, 3 nephews, 1 niece. I spend alot of time with them and my parents. I'm looking for someone with the same values as me who is also close to thier family. I would like to meet someone who enjoys spending time together. I'm an effectionate person so I hope to meet someone who is also effectionate. I would like to meet someone who also has children so that they would understand how important children are. I hope to find someone who likes to go out and do things and just be together enjoying eachother.

On a first date I think it should be somewhere where we can talk and get to know eachother and see if there is a connection. Dinner followed by somewhere where we can listen to live music or maybe an activity like bowling or miniature golf.