So here we are. Seems as though life keeps testing us in our relationships’. Who would have thought that meeting your mate/life partner would be so difficult? Did you ever think when you first got married that you would be on some dating site in the desert? Well not me, we were all so happy in our new homes raising kids going to basketball games, t-ball, soccer and shoveling snow in NY. But like a scene in the Twilight Zone, everything all of a sudden just didn’t seem right. Then bam here we are. Just like everyone on here, I’ve had my share of dates. Some were good some bad. But still haven’t met my life partner. So a little about myself, because that’s why your reading this. Was married for 19 years, had four kids. 2 Boys and 2girls, all are grown now. I have a full time job, my own car. Live by myself. I like to bike, hike, cook, dance, watch bands. So much more but if you’re still interested you know how this works. Hope to hear from you and happy fishing…… Note to self, remember to take pictures in front of some out of the country place sign...lol. Only 5 members on my Fav. list, should I add my pets and kids to my pictures seems to be the trend??? I think its so funny when women put "I'm attracted to men who are intelligent, confident and who are good conversationalists." Does anyone ever say, I'm attracted to men who are stupid, shy and mute? LOL..just kidding it's late and I'm bored. Well I see they removed the Favorite List. That's a good idea, now I don't have to keep checking to see how many friends I have. I was feeling lonely there with only 5 friends, I was getting ready to start buying some friends to build up my count...lol. Its ok for woman to make the first move? I like PB&J. If I like the way I sound, does that make me a good singer? Why do we park in the driveway and drive on the parkway? Please have a picture in your profile, YES we want to see what you look like. We just love to throw the Drama word around. Looking to be in a relationship ! I believe everyone should have a pic on here. If you were at a bar, you wouldn't hide your face when talking to someone. I don't think anyone who decides to go on here is too famous or that important that they can't show there face. Unless your hiding from an X. I don't like the way they (POF) say "old man" after my age, can we get that changed? Vegas is a DESERT, so walking on the beach is not possible sorry.

First date...slow walk around Sunset Park or meet for a drink...chat and after a few mins we'd know if things will move on.

Name this tune:

No one bites back as hard
On their anger
None of my pain and woe
Can show through