Personality can make it or break it for me. Someone average looking can become drop dead gorgeous with a great smile and personality. On the other hand, someone with great looks can be a total bore or too much into himself.

I've been single for a little over 9 years. I thought I had found that special man once during that 9 years, but I was a little wrong. He's a good guy and I wish him well! But I still believe there is a great match out there just for me. I can truthfully say that I only desire one friend to love!!

I'm not a skinny-minny in the least, I do have plushhhh curves. And I am not looking for perfection either! I do not waddle (much) ha, nor do I need to be seated in two plane seats when I fly anywhere. I am almost 50 and while I'd love to have the body I had in my 20's, that is long gone and three children ago.

I would love to meet a man that is very honest. One who knows what he wants and goes after it. Somebody that is loving, witty, sometimes silly, caring, intelligent, has integrity, romantic, sensual, passionate about all things he does, and loves sports and being outdoors and can dance..... even loves to dance.

I would like for him to be able see the humor in things and not afraid to show/receive lots of affection. Somebody that is a great communicator because I hate trying to figure out what he is thinking. ESP is not one of my capabilities!!

A gentleman who isn't scared to get up and dance or to sing out loud because his voice is worse than mine is! (and mine is bad!!!) He would be able to make time for his family (first) and then us. Would respect me & others on all levels ~ as I always do him. Somebody that is also willing to share with me his thoughts on many levels. He is very direct in his approach to business but is much softer with people he cares about.

I'd love him being spontaneous.... Just losing the suit and grabbing his jeans and toothbrush and let's just head out the door for the evening or weekend!!

I love to travel, meet new people, listen to music, camp(even fish - yes, I CAN bait my own hook) and would like to establish a friendship first, and then the possibility of a LTR / Marriage. This is NOT a "must" but if you do not want to marry at all, then we are not a good match. I am just looking for somebody that is "open to the possibility." I am NOT looking for somebody that wants a mother...somebody to take care of them....I desire a man who will be my partner.... Who is NOT interested in games (everybody says this don't they!!) or needs to be in control ... but who knows what he wants and can express his love if that is where this leads. So, "good- time daters" need not apply.

In short.....I desire a Man's Man!!! Hope to hear from you soon!!!

****Guys, if you send me one liners, I more than likely will not answer you.... really try to be creative and tell me a bit about yourself!!!****

I love trying new things...... I love the hot days and nights of summer, boating, traveling, dancing, Music by Diana Krall (and many others), great conversations, going to baseball games, love love love fireworks and concerts under the stars!!!

To me a fun date isn't so much about what you're doing, as it's about enjoying who you're with!!!!