I am on here for the same reasons as most people, to find a long term partner. I enjoy most sports, cooking, long walks, romance and spending time with my kids. I am easy going and I believe in working for a living, not living to work. Life is too short so enjoy life now, not when you retire. You don't even know if you'll be alive then.

First dates ( also known as interviews ), are tough enough. Drinking coffee is about the most boring thing there is to do. I prefer doing something fun instead of sitting at a coffee shop staring at each other. Making conversation with someone new can be tough, but if you're doing something fun together it makes it easier. Something like skating, or bowling, billiards or making a meal together would be great. Keep it light and fun and don't put pressure on yourself, just try to have fun.