hey! i'm matt! well here i am...First off i have a son who i love with all of my heart. Now, this doesn't mean i'm looking for a mom replacement or to get married anytime soon. if me having a kid scares you off i understand and in no way that makes you a bad person! go ahead and move on and no hard feelings! but i can assure you that there is NO baby mamma drama at all, promise! i'm really looking for cool people to chill with right now. not sure what may come of it but i don't like putting pressure on things. a relationship is branched off of a solid friendship ya know? so might as well be friends and see what happens. i want to be in a relationship with someone who is my best friend. i'm not looking to jump into anything really quickly. i like to take is slow and feel things out.

So about me huh...well, i'm a lot of fun to be around! i could make a good time out of an insurance seminar or yawning festival. lol! i can get a long with most anyone. i'm a very loyal and loving friend. i LOVE to make people laugh. i'll be the first to get someone out of a bad mood by making them laugh! i'm really into sports especially HOCKEY! My favorite team is the LA KINGS! I'm very passionate about hockey. i love trying new things and i love new adventures. i'm the kind of guy that can stay in and watch movies or go out and have fun. i love to be spontaneous. i don't like to sit around and have nothing going on. i like being active and on the move. i'm pretty excited to talk to new people on here. i like to be competative but not out of control...most of the time...lol! i love to talk so there will most likely not be an awkward moment of silence unless you have the personality of a head of lettuce. haha! i'm a total guy that likes sports, cars, BBQ and working out but on the other hand i'm sensetive but not like gay sensetive. LOL! i'm just saying i have the capacity to love and respect and be understanding. I love movies. i quote them all the time. i really enjoy all kinds of music. Music is a big part of my life. i love playing as well as listening.

My ideal match huh? well there's a lot but i'm pretty much looking for a down to earth fun loving, sport watching...or playing...or both!, food loving girl, who can laugh at the smallest things and even herself at time. someone who can admit to being wrong occasionally...yes i know girls are never wrong! honesty, loyalty and family values are huge! i like a girl who takes care of herself yet is comfy with who she is. friends are a big part of my life and hope they would be of hers too. i also like a girl that is cuddly and laid back but also ready and willing to have an adventure and go out and get dirty whenever. i don't like when people make excuses. i'm all about being upfront and honest. i'm not really sure what else to write but i'm sure i'll add as time goes on. send me a message if you'd like to talk! have a great day!

ok so i've got a bunch of messages asking about the seal picture...ok so first off it's a harbor seal. we RESCUED it. lol! no we did not harm the animal, it beached itself because it was sick. but it was just such a pretty looking harbor seal that we took a pic with it. i used to volunteer for a sea lion rescue center where they rescue and rehabilitate the animals. the center does amazing work and the people there are the best and very good at what they do. so thats the story and i hope that clears things up!

i'm up for anything fun. i'd wanna get to know someone, so anything where we can talk and see each others personality! only thing is...BE YOURSELF!!