im 19 years old i love playing softball working on my truck and being outdoors. i became a fulltime firefighter/Paramedic at the age of 19 and there is nothing else id rather do for a living. i love just about every kind of music..im hoping to find a girl with some goals for her life. i want someone who strives to be successful. not many people my age have a career so if you do its a plus, or if you have a job and are in school its a plus... please dont pity me or feed me some crap, if you dont wanna talk to me then dont .. i truly believe that people will do what they feel and they should do what they feel ... not just do what seems to be good at the time or convenient for them at the time..one of my biggest pet peaves is settling for something because you dont think you can find better... your only going to hurt someone else if you fake it and everyone should be able to have the best for them.. on that note im tired of always getting crushed .. i seem to put my feelings out there and it always turns out the same way.. with me getting hurt.. and right now i dont see how any girl is different.. they all want the bad guy and thats just not me so if u want an ass just keep lookin cause i cant do it.. im the kind of guy that always pays and always holds the door and pulls your seat out for you.. or gives you my jacket when your cold and makes sure you always have a smile on your face... please someone prove that im wrong and there really is someone out there that wants this cause right now i just dont believe it.. dont get me wrong ill give anyone a chance but ive found nothing but dissapointment so far..

it really depends on what the girl likes... something wear we can talk and get to know each other but something original too.. definately not dinner and a movie.. too cliche and there are a lot more things to do out there than eat dinner and then sit in silence to watch a movie that neither of you are sure that you will like.. i definatly would make it memorable somehow though and if you are that interested .... well i guess you will have to find out..