so im 25, have a cat, spend a lot of time with my family and live in my flip flops. i like the rain, but love the sun more. sand between my toes relaxes me like a good glass of wine or a chilled beer.

i have standards not only for myself but for those i surround myself with. i love learning about others, my reward, i get along with many different types of people. i like to watch people...not stalker status, but in a way that allows you to see people for who they are. better yet, i love to sit with my camera in a single spot for hours looking for that perfect scene. find a spot on a cliff near the beach, look for that movement of a branch, curl in the waves...it is my way of relaxing...my zen.

i would like to find someone who is open minded and can teach me things not only about myself but about life that i might have over looked. i am also a realist though. as much as i don't want to believe that finances matter, i am real enough to realize that in this day in age it does and will add stress to a relationship. that being said, i would like to find someone who can take care of themself, i promise i can put my money where my mouth is too. i am true, i WILL be there for the good and the BAD, just promise i can burry my head in your chest if i am scared. i want to be an equal....have a guy that doesn't mind a lady that speaks her mind. ps. i can behave in public. i dress casual, but clean up well. promise.

ps. if you message me an easy question that is obviously found in the body of this text i will not be thrilled. looks are a factor, but i hope you read what this a little to see if we even connect. lol

some place we chat a bit...to find out if a first date is the way to go. if not, shoot friends are always good.