Who I am.....


Well I am very honest to start with. I dont lie about what you are gonna meet. . I very goofy and i like to tell strange stories to make people laugh. I have never been the pissy or dramatic type. I have confidence and believe in myself. Im very into music and doing activities outside the house. I like artsy stuff like ballets and operas...but at the same time im not high maintainance. I have always been very down to earth and real. Im not tied to any exes and i dont have emotional baggage. Im a pretty much a "what you see is what you get kinda gal" no sugar coating. I'm not perfect, but hey who wants perfect? Its too boring , But I know i will be perfect in the eyes of the right person. I like to be equal in a relationship. I dont expect him to do everything and im not looking for a sugar daddy or someone to use. I am the type that will help you not work against you. Affection is my forte. I really love to hold hands and kiss and surprise someone. There will never be cheating issues with me. Id rather tell someone that the spark isnt there and we need to fix it, rather than go screw his friend or whatever disgusting things chicks have done to men. In this day and age it is hard to trust anyone anymore (alot of men tell me that) Then I ask them...Do you actually read her profile other than just looking at her pic? lol. Attraction is important but theres more than just a banging body and great boobs. Thats why men get treated like shit, they only go for the model types most of the time. If you have children thats fine, just plz no baby momma drama. I am looking to fall in love, thats why we are here,, well the basic population looking for something real is. Im not expecting to get oodles of emails bc what im looking for is longterm only, im not here for a population contest or to see how many guys i can use for dinner. Just something real and special. I still remain optimistic that the right one is out there.


What Im Looking For

I know this should go without saying but i encounter this alot. Someone withe GOOD PERSONAL HYGIENE lol. I like clean cut guys that take care of themselves. Im not really into greasy haired pot smokers. I like level headed, intelligent, and straight guys. The fact he has a sense of humor will only be a plus. I'm not looking for casual sex or friends with benifits, no one wins in that situation but someone trying to be a pig. Sorry to be so honest but if you think im one of those gals....move on to the next profile. Im not saying sex isnt important, bc believe me its is really vital to a relationship but there is no reason to pressure a woman to screw you bc you bought her dinner its not only ridculous, but it also shows you will not respect for them.

I woukld perfer to get to know a guy and go on dates and eventually turn into a relationship. Im only looking to go forward...not backward. Im not intrested in taking things extremely slow bc ur not over your ex or for some reason you are traumatized. I know people with a guarded heart has been hurt, but its unfair to make the rest of us pay for it. Id really perfer a gentlman who is polite, emotionally intelligent, and talk through problems and not scream or yell and cuss at me. There is no reason a man should scream unless its to tell you to watch out for that bus lol. I know that the economy sucks and some of us are forced to lives with roomates. But plz, if you are forty and still have your mom do ur laundry, plz dont apply. If your 35 and ur mom makes your decisions for you...plz dont apply. Its okay to get your mothers help i can respect a man that loves his mother, but theres a point where it goes too far, and for me its a turn off. Well if you are looking for something that will only go FORWARD, plz send me an email.

NOT THE MOVIES, BUT WOULD GO FOR DRINKS OR GO TO A MUSEUM TO GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER. IM NOT THE TYPE OF WOMAN THAT REQUIRES DINNER AND A FIVE STAR DATE. IM OPEN TO ALOT OF THINGS.