After 30 years of marriage and 4 great sons (all independent) I have learned that the only constant in life is change. I have reinvented myself into "Professor J.M. Love", a dating columnist for Long Island Pulse Magazine. I am also developing a reality T.V. show on dating the second time around. I'm hopeful that you can find love, not just once, but twice. I'm very youthful in spirit, looks, and attitude. My passion is boating, swimming, and tanning on the north shore of long island. I'm a college professor so I believe I am a people person. Computers as a dating tool are much too impersonal. I prefer to look in a woman's eyes and see her smile. At this stage of life the one thing I am NOT looking for is drama. I know what I like and what I don't like. I'm looking for a woman who is a "headturner",easygoing with that special smile,and youthful enough to wear a bikini on the boat and high heels at night! Allow me to take the lead and you will enjoy the journey...I promise! I also prefer only Long Island women because going for a cup of coffee with someone who lives in New Jersey or Connecticut isn't quite practical.My musical taste includes jazz, R&B, soul, and even disco because I love to dance! Sorry, no "country". (lol)

The first date can be something as simple as going to a local diner for breakfast. "I like to see a woman in the sunlight rather a dark bar-setting". Then should we make a spiritual, physical, and emotional connection, I would enjoy a day on the boat, going to Prime in Huntington or Steamboat Landing in Glen Cove for lunch, and watching the sunset as we tenderly kiss. I'm a passionate man...are YOU a passionate woman? If so, let's meet!