Things I like to do: playing & coaching volleyball, yard work, listening to music, anything spontaneous, being outside when the weather is nice, making people laugh, cleaning (I know this sounds crazy, but it's the satisfaction I get from it), kissing, being intimate, teasing, watching movies, snow skiing, water skiing, hiking, entertaining, and the list goes on and on and on!!!

Goals/Aspirations: my #1 priority/goal is insuring my kids grow up to become well-rounded and well-balanced individuals, living and working for their dreams (supporting them like my parents supported me).

Personality: I am not a person who sits around waiting for things to happen. I am highly motivated and energized..always have been. I enjoy the differences in people, and I don't judge. I'm open (almost too much), I like to know where I stand so setting my expectations is important. I wear my heart on my sleeve, although I pretend I don't. I'm passionate, sexual, giving, charming, funny, witty, bright, spiritual, loving, clean freak, outgoing (I know NO stranger)...guess you should meet me so you can comment on this list youself:-)

I have three absolutely beautiful daughters who I've been blessed with. If you have kids then you know how hard raising them can be, especially by yourself; however, I'm not looking for a father for my kids. I would like someone who is a good role model and a man who accepts them. They aren't going away( at least not anytime soon). It's a package deal, so to speak.

I'm wanting someone who allows me to be me; one who brings out my strong traits, and smothers the weak ones. A man who can communicate in and out of the bedroom. I want someone I can call my best friend; someone who I can turn to who knows how to comfort & share.

If any of this interest you, feel free to ping me. I like meeting new people and finding out about them. I can usually tell soon after initial emails, IM's or whatever we use to communicate whether or not there is a connection.

I have now added some of what are becoming some of my favorite sayings:
- Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goals.
- All you have to do to change your life is change your mind.
- The best things in life are not THINGS!
- We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.
- Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.

First date vs. first meeting is totally different. If I'm meeting someone face to face for the first time after some discussions via email and the phone, I would like to almost do anything that would allow us to talk...nothing loud or obtrusive...not a movie..not holding hands and walking...just some adult conversation allowing us to discover more about one another and to see if we want to see each other again. I'm sure we won't even have to ask...we just assume we will see each other again. Now, that's how it's supposed to be.....

First date is something we can both decide together on unless you want to take the lead and make the call, which I like for someone else to do. I love to be surprised, and I really enjoy doing things that are 'out of the norm'!