I am a very eclectic person. I enjoy a wide variety of things. I am not a girly girl unless we are talking about spiders. I know it is an irrational fear but it is mine and it is real. Don't test it. I am looking for the man that I want to spend my life with and who wants to be with me. I am not a woman that needs a man in her life, I want one. I am a independant woman and perfectly capable of taking care of myself and my son. If it is broke I usually fix it. If I can't then I know how to hire someone to get the job done. I bought a jeep for a fun summer vehicle this year and am having a blast. I like the outdoors, live music, movies, books, swimming, going to the lake or the river. I like to dance, and attempt to bowl and play pool. I am very bad at both, but have fun trying. I am not a baseball fan, but really like going to football games.

I have been single for four years now. I am happy and like my life, but truly feel I am going to meet the person I am supposed to grow old with. You know the partner that mixes up your glasses and wonders why neither of you can see. I am very optimistic about you being out there somewhere. In reality you don't know where I am and that I am waiting on you. So, thats why I am advertising that I am here on this site.

I am an open up front and honest person. I don't play games. I know you have heard that before, but I truly mean it. I am not one of those who play hard to get just to drive you crazy. Never could do it. If we meet and I like you, I will tell you. Don't let it freak you out thinking that I believe we were meant to be together forever. It just means I like you and want to get to know you better, nothing more, nothing less.

Heres the deal all wrapped up nice and neat for you. If you like what you read and want to meet me then contact me. If you don't have a picture posted I am going to ask for one. So don't bother if your not willing to share. If you are looking for a hook-up keep looking. I am not interested in just a physical relationship. If you are not ready to meet and start to seriously date someone, then keep going. I have met too many men who aren't. Like I have said at the begining of this .... I am looking for the man I WANT to be with, not NEED to be with.

Thought I would add this thought for you to ponder.... It is said that men are looking for a combination of an angel and devil in a woman. Well I am looking for a combination of a nice guy with just enough bad boy mixed in for fun. Is it possible to find? Is it you?

Just a few thoughts.....

I like to go dirt roading in my jeep.
I like to dress up and go to social events.
I volunteer in my community.
I am very involved with my children.
To cry from laughter is the best.
Sex is great but I want more! Someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation.
Sometimes crude jokes are just funny.
Tall men with facial hair are sexy.
Bald can be beautiful.
Roller coasters are thrilling!
I am a strong woman. But always a woman!
I love my legs but working on the rest.
Are you still reading?
Cold beer on a hot day. Wine when in the mood. Martinis to unwind at the end of a long week.
Live music is top! blues rock country no rap.
Sometimes you just have to say crap happens laugh and move on!
I do stupid stuff sometimes. We all do.
I am able to laugh at myself
Beer makes me burp. Just like you!
I am thankful for all the blessings god has given me.

I prefer to meet for lunch. That way if we don't actually click then everyone has to leave to get back to work anyway. If we do, then whos to say we can't take the afternoon off and talk the day away.