Oh crap... here we go! Honestly?! I'm ridiculously cute, exceptionally talented, passionate as hell, optimistic beyond justification, forthright, upright, & Magical. Have I mentioned Humble? -- Now, the stupid thing is, that's all entirely correct...

Ok, whew! Glad that's taken care of... So, you might wonder how such a wonderful catch is on here, searching? Well, I wonder what you're doing on here, too! The weird truth of the matter is, we're both as amazing as we understand ourselves to be... but, somehow, Life hasn't rewarded us yet with the ever-lasting love we're inclined to find. Certainly, we've both loved fervently... and we've come to understand that a healthy relationship requires two healthy people. For my part, that's my focus... maintaining a healthy & happy me so that I can bring myself into any relationship. (Whether intimate or casual.) We both know we can't control another person. For my part, I wouldn't care to. I suspect you wouldn't, either...

It'll probably scare the hell out of you to read that I'm a musician. I dig it... Most women I know dated a musician at some point... probably in college. Thing is, that guy was probably an ass. I'm not. I'm also a better musician than he is... and, it's how I make my living. Moreover, I do make a living at it. That whole "starving artist" crap has never flown with me... I'm thin by design, not because I can't afford food. Between engineering & performing, I can maintain my half of any relationship. (Let's face it, we live in a two-income economy.) -- As another plus, I have no debt... again, by design... and I never dread "going to work". Not many people are so fortunate... poor kids...

You'll come to know a lot about my family. Lead by Mom... who was a Force of Nature; and the first Love of my Life. My Dad, who was the best man I'll ever know. With his passing, I'm now the best man I know... (I know, that sounds stupid. Fortunately, I know the definition of "subjective".) I also have a gang of brothers, and two phenomenal sisters. I love Kids like nobody's business, though I haven't any of my own; and don't necessarily "need" to have any. (That's a couple's decision)

Anywho, I know myself very well... that's fine. I'm a huge dork (see Pirate pics as evidence). My interests are varied, and I'm certainly not the dullest tool in the shed... Is it any wonder we exist in 3D?! (or 14D, if you're into M-Theory)

Look forward to talkin' with ya'. Peace

Addendum: Having now spent just a little over a week on here; I have a short list of “Thanks, but no thanks.”

1. I’m not the least bit interested in “servicing you” as your husband watches. Truly…
2. I’m not equipped to compete with your girlfriend; and simply am not interested in such an adventure. Thanks for the consideration, though...

Yes, I need some pics of me not dressed as a Pirate. Given. I also work a lot of evenings & weekends. So do Nurses... Like them, it's just my job. My normal days off, for the time being, are Wednesdays & Thursdays. Unless you're lookin' to be my Suga-Mama; you'll appreciate that I'm streadily employed more than my schedule will bother you...

I wonder what aspects of our profiles they use to determine “what percentage” we match up with one another? Just curious… I don’t recall answering any telling questions as I filled out my profile. Um, yeah… that’s about it. Good fishin’ to ya’!

I suppose my favorite first dates are ones which naturally lead to an all night conversation. I dig people... We're each dynamic, so there's plenty to share; and One of my special skills is that I listen very well. (We'll have to know one another better before you learn of my other skills. Dork!) :) And, let's face it, if I'm on a date with you I'm already physically attracted to you... so I'll be very excited to learn more about you. -- ps: Whoever you are is all I'm interested in. Sincerely...

Oh, and don't die of shock if I have a guitar with me. S/he goes pretty anywhere I go. The good news there is, I don't suck! :)

(Bet ya' didn't know guitars change their gender from one moment to the next?!) Um, did I mention I'm a Dork?! :)