Well here I am again giving this place yet another chance. From the experiences I have had here so far, I have no idea why I am drawn to give this another chance. Everything I have found here so far is everything I don’t want. So far I have found plenty of mental cases (the ones that want to talk about marriage after two weeks), liar’s (especially the ones that like’s to date you and 3 more while your being told you’re the only one), and hard core rednecks (that pretty much speaks for itself). Being a man and hearing the stories about what most women have to put up with on here, if the men are worse than the women I have found…..I truly feel sorry for all of you that’s seriously looking for someone decent.


Ok, One more time……..


I’m a single dad of and 8 year old daughter. She lives with me. She’s a good kid and not a brat. I’m very proud of the little person she has turned into. I like to stay involved in anything she does, especially her basketball and softball games.

I do have a pretty good job and I work a lot of hours sometimes. Life can get a little difficult at times trying to balance work, my daughters activities, and taking care of my home and yard. Can easily make time for the right person, but they must be able to be patient and understanding during the times when I’m covered up. I am more than willing to be understanding in the same way.

I am the type of person that has high expectations in anything I do or anything I involve myself in. I’m pretty easy going and can enjoy most anything with the right person. I like to talk about anything in good company and I‘m a good listener. I enjoy camping, fishing, hunting, going to UT football games, keeping my yard looking good, going to movies, weekend getaway’s and gathering with friends for cookouts and BS sessions.


What I’m looking for……..


To start with, I hope this doesn’t sound too snooty but from my previous experiences I must say please have some class about yourself. There’s nothing more attractive to me than seeing a woman with a good head on her shoulders with morals and a huge concern on how she carries herself and controls her life. Please be true to your word. If I tell you something you can count on it. Please be the same way with me. If you’re here to date a lot of people and that’s what you like doing, your probably not for me. If I’m seeing someone I like to connect with them. That’s hard to do when you know your number 2 or 3 or whatever.

I would want someone with a good heart and family oriented. Someone that understands the pleasure of times like being together at Christmas and enjoying watching the kids get excited opening their presents and spending family time together. Also someone that has goals and wants something out of life.


There seems to be so many people on these sites that have been hurt in the past and have serious trust issues and have had a very hard time realizing what they really want. I can understand that. I have been there myself and it has taken me years to get past it. I can assure you though that time has healed my issues and I am past them. I hope you are too. If not, the best advice I could give anyone is to not waste your time on sites like this and take your time to learn to trust and live with yourself before involving yourself with anyone else. A good friend told me that one time and after years has passed I understand how accurate that advice was. And besides, why waste each others time?


Anyway, if you have read anything that interests you and you would like to know the person behind the picture (cause I take sucky pic’s lol) drop me an email and lets see if we have anything in common and can at least make each other laugh. I seem to be pretty good at that. lol

Well, here we go again. Lets see what happens this time.

I hate being this way, but due to too many instances of wasted time, I will not respond to any emails without pic's. If I can put one on here so can you.


Later


NEWSFLASH: All you ladies that feel your such hottie's and think that should be good enough reason for me to neglect my daughter and spend all my time with you, move on. Don't even waste your time contacting me. I assure you that will never happen and there's not one woman on this entire site that could change that. Not to mention if you feel that way, you are not what I'm looking for. Please re-read the profile.


NEWSFLASH2:Good Lord........are there no normal people out there at all? What a rollercoaster of drama this continues to be. It just doesn't seem like too much to ask to find just one with a good head on their shoulders. I hate to sound mean but if your not mentally stable, or just looking for someone to come and rescue you from a life your unhappy with, or my favorite....."I believe the man suppose to work and the woman stays at home",.........PLEASE....DO NOT CONTACT ME! No sense in wasting each others time because we will not be on the same page. This is 2009 not 1950. Any person with good common sense knows it takes two these days working together to have a nice life with nice things. I am more than capable of cooking and cleaning my house and if I wasn't I would hire a maid. It's all about working together towards the same goals and helping one another. Cmon ya'll, get a grip! Geeeez

Whatever makes you comfortable works for me.