Dear Santa,

Black Friday is going to be here soon..only a few weeks before you drop off presents to all the good girls and boys (and adult kid at hearts too). What I really want for Christmas Santa..there can be no price tag for. For I wish to find that one special person who I can share that connection with. When I mean connection..I dont mean a physical one (that comes later) but one where we have similar interests and personalty traits. Someone whom I can start with that and build a long lasting relationship with...and down the road have it become romantic and intimate. If I have learned anything from dating is that you have to have some things in common, there has to be communication, honesty, trust, and yes looks do play a part..but mostly it is if there is chemistry within and somewhat without. Looks can come and go..but personality cant.

Santa a lil about me:

I am genuine 33 years old NATURAL Strawberry Blonde who knows what she wants in a relationship
Born in Kenmore raised in Williamsville, NY area
I have a Medical Assisting degree and Medical Office Assistant Certificate
Lived in Rochester, NY for 7 years 1999-2006
I dont have any children
I adore children and open to being in a relationship with someone who has them
Live with the folks til I can get my feet on the ground (had some setbacks)
I do drive and have my own car
I have a huge heart of gold and a lot of love to share with the right person
I am sweet, kind, honest, nice, outgoing, warmhearted, very liberal and a spitfire
I am a huge kid at heart and act like it at times
I dont smoke or do drugs..and I don't like kissing ashtrays
I do drink occasionally when I am out on the town and shaking my booty on dance floor
I had weight loss surgery 4 years ago and lost 170lbs and have kept it off
I enjoy working out at Planet Fitness 3 times a week with weights and cardio
I enjoying spending time with my sisters and their families when I get to see them
I have a variety of interests and hobbies..I think they are fun..you might not..

What I am looking for
Ultimately a long term relationship with a man who knows what he wants
A man between the ages of 33-45 years
I prefer white men please
A man who does not smoke, does drugs, or has a problem with booze
Lives in the WNY area (not interested in dating anyone in Canada or Rochester)
Someone who is single or separated or divorced is fine with me
I understand that there maybe some baggage that comes from former relationships
Someone who has similar interests and personality traits as I do
I want a man with a great personality and likes to have fun and also stay in
Someone I can hold a conversation with that is intellectual not talking about sexual content or talks about his ex all the time
Someone that can make me smile..laugh..and that I can be myself around
someone who will introduce me to things I have never done before

Santa, I dont think I am asking a lot. I am genuine and really looking for my someone special.

Heidi

ps- I will leave out some cookies and spiked eggnog for you.

I wont go to a movie, drive in, your house, etc on the first date. How can you talk and get to know someone that way..and you are just implying you want a booty call. Not into one nighters or booty calls.