Do you ski or snowboard & have energy to spare? Lets hit the slopes for the day!

Hi, my nickname is "D." I am a fun, active high energy adventurer looking for someone who has an active youthful lifestyle. We could have fun, hit the slopes, have a drink, share some laughs, see if there is a connection.

I'm usually looking for someone who can keep up with me, but if you have high energy, and push me a little bit: "come on, let's take one more run", "hey we still have half an hour more before they close the ice," "who care's if it's tuesday-there's a cool concert tonight" or "hey the night is still young, let's hit the dance floor", then I will dig that. Make me keep up with you!

Message me if you like to cut to the chase and meet in person, versus spend a lot of time online. I will be on the slopes or at the gym this winter, but will definately make the time to meet you, if you're the fun, positive, energetic sort!

Personality:
I am happy and positive, energetic and vivacious. I can be cute, funny, caring, and then dive-in-the-deep-end intense. I am friendly, outgoing, and confident, but can be vulnerable on occasion. Intelligent, always thinking, well educated. Sporty and ready to try new things. Also compassionate, nurturing and great at TLC. Occasionally can be silly/goofy, eclectic/artsy or serious/bookish. I dive in the deep end. (ENTJ if you know myers briggs) A woman of substance who owns her choices, not the 'sqeaky girl' type.

Lifestyle:
I'll be spending much of the winter on the slopes skiing or snowboarding, (I'm a rookie: green/blue trails, but i'm determined, and dedicated, and I love it. A few falls won't stop me!) You will also find me at the fitness center, or in Boston meeting with friends. I also frequently enjoy sailing, jetskiing, taking motorcycle rides, rollerblading, golf, tennis, visiting the caribbean, or the occasional international trip. I have high energy, and can rally and get up and go. I go to concerts, comedy shows, get drinks, go dancing. What's missing is that special man to share it with.

Romantically:
I am flirty, naturally affectionate, and yes, passionate, but i'm not an object, and IT's not going to happen right away. I am looking for someone who is positive, playful, flirty, and expressive. Looking for mental, emotional and physical chemistry leading to a bf/gf relationship: the kind where you stay over, then we get up and ski all day together. Ultimately seeking one connection which I believe develops in person; so a date is the only real way to see if there is chemistry. While I am truly looking for the one guy; I'm also not one to wait at home for the phone, I'm not into the waiting around game. By 'separated' I mean 'living in separate houses, and processing through divorce' - the process can take a while to become finalized; so yes I am able and ready to have a real relationship again. I'm straightforward, a woman who says what she wants and not a girl who plays games. I won't wait four days to call you, or be coy. If you practice a 'system', stay purposefully distant or try mind games, I am intelligent enough to see through it, and self-respecting enough not to put up with it. While I've been called a cougar, and enjoy the energy of younger muscular action-adventure types, I am looking for a real relationship, I am not interested in just one-night 'flings'. I think age is just a number, and having a real connection is way more important, developing that deep friendship as well as romantic attraction. I am deeply caring, deeply feeling, deeply passionate. I have loved deeply before, the whole heart, whole self, whole soul, with everything you've got kind of love, and I will love like that again.

Traveler:
I learned to drive stick while in the mountains in France, sang for the late PJP, rode the midnight Dover express, explored the Ring of Kerry, backpacked my way through the south pacific on my own, climbed Ayers Rock, Scuba'd on the Great Barrier, and Bungeed and hiked glaciers in NZ. I'd like to find a man to share the next international adventure with.

Brains:
Someone who can outsmart me gets definate points. I am an independent thinker, and I love people with opinions, and critical thinking abilities. I am a Babson MBA, BC undergrad. Always seeking new knowledge, solving connundrums. For work, I am a strategic brand manager consultant, and I love it! I am responsible, analytical and visionary on the job. Can engage both creative and the matematical side. Hey! Both my left brain and my right brain work! :-) I am most happy getting to know what makes YOU tick, (while I unfold like a rose-ie: slowly). Be comfortable with silences please, every moment doesn't need to be filled with water-cooler chatter. I'd love to hear your thoughts about society, politics, and the state of the world.


Health:
I train at the gym 3 times a week, and run a few miles on the elliptical, zumba. Eat light and healthy. Don't smoke. I'm happy and comfortable with who I am today, including my curvy frame. I'm a soft, curvy, voluptuous woman, athletic with muscles underneath, but not skinny. My measurements are shrinking(lost 8" in Oct). As of Nov. 2009, they are: 34D, 32W, 39H, size 12/L. I still am very active, and have high energy, and don't need much sleep.

Values:
I am a nice, sweet person. I love animals, say hi to the homeless, give to charities. Pay attention to world politics, the environment and care about my effect on the world. I hope to raise my son to be worldly, open to all cultures, and the values to make the world better.

Who I am looking for:
Someone who is fun to go out with:
Positive, fills the glass up ALL the way. A youthful, energetic, confident adventurer with an active lifestyle. Can be goofy without being self-concious. Future goals driven. Active, strong, passionate and energetic. My match intellectually, physically energetic, emotionally open. Wants to go out and have fun, see the world, do everything once. A calculated risk taker: drives fast, participates in adventuorus sports, loves to try new things. Meets in person quickly. If you have that 'charlestown' brand of cool going, you are definately my 'type'.

But ultimately, someone to come home to:
Affectionate, kind and caring. Straightforward, honest, loyal. That man who inspires me to work harder, be smarter, love deeper, and strive to be a better person in all aspects is the one i'm looking for. That person for whom I will care deeply, respect, be a best friend to...someone who is of good character enough to earn and deserve my love and loyalty. If you have pride, values, a code of conduct, honor,
as well as being fun, then you are the one for me.

For a first meeting: A drink after work where we can talk is easy, fun, low pressure. Prefer activties to 'hanging out' at home. A walk/hike/sail, hit the beach/slopes, dancing, hit balls at the range, anything outdoors that will get us up and going!