I once saw a man and a woman at a car wash. They were standing side by side holding a news paper together. She had her free arm wrapped around his free arm. She look her hand and rubbed up his arm and over his shoulder back down his arm and put her hand in his hand. Nothing sexual about it at all, just a movement, a moment that stopped all time and everything around them was gone. Just a movement of affection that was not forced, controlled or expected. I felt my heart melt saying to myself "WOW, I want that kind of unconditional love".

I am The youngest of 8 with 5 older sisters and 2 older brothers. I was taught to be seen not heard. For that I am still a very quiet person. It isn't that I don't have anything to say but I don't talk just to be heard. If I have something to say I will say it. I grew up in the Dallas area, lived here most all of my life, except when I was in the Marines. I had a career in the Security industry and even achieved my goal of becoming a Federal Police Officer. I also at one point owned a Massage Clinic and still am a licensed massage therapist but haven't practiced in a while. I now am a Manager of a popular Mexican Restaurant. I have two daughters that I wish I had more time for. I was married for 15 years but have been single for 9 years now. It isn't that I haven't tried to find that one woman that when I think of her I can feel her thinking of me. I've been lied to, cheated on and deceived. I'm not bitter about any of it because it has made me look for a true, honest, genuine woman and made me stronger. We can only learn from mistakes. I'm not looking for a wife tomorrow, just looking forward to tomorrow. Someone to share an experience with even if it was something crazy or funny that we saw someone else doing, just to make us laugh. Something to just make us say Wow.

Nobody has to be alone unless they choose to be. My Name is Tim, I choose not to..

Well if any of this sounds like I could be a match for you drop me a note, Thank You for reading my profile and hope to hear from you.

Honestly, It is a meeting not a date. A public place, maybe coffee.