I like to play golf walking in countryside to keep fit, like the algarve and maybe spend more time there one day in the future,im a genuine honest guy and demand the same from a partner ,i like diverse tastes in music but recently added salsa music to my list.I would like to meet someone that would be a best friend and feel at ease and comfortable with to enjoy the things that couples do,holidays,trips,etc,etc...very mild jack dee sense of humour at times not to be taken seriously... Oh and please do not take offence but no picture no reply,its a fair request for a dating site .If i am in the right place , I was informed it was a dating site "Allegedly".......Meeting someone whom has a passion for the beautiful algarve coastline would be a bonus,but not a neccesity..and a woman that has a little mischief in her eyes!!!

Important Update(This is just a bit of a funny story that a friend sent me and in no way resembles any of my perceptions of the fairer sex).But thank you to the women on here that felt sorry for me because of this "story"and sorry to anyone that it offended.
I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

FOR EXAMPLE:

One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, 'I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me.'

I said, 'WHAT??!! What was that?!'

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear..

'You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man.'

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, 'Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?'

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfit s. She couldn't decide which one to take, so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said, 'Lets get a pair for each outfit.'

We went on to the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you... She was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis

I think I threw her for a loop when I said, 'That's fine, honey.' She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, 'I think this is all
Dear, let's go to the cashier.'

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, 'No honey, I don't feel like it.'

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled, 'WHAT?'

I then said, 'Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman.'

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, 'Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?'

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either.....but at least that **** knows I'm smarter than her.


All right Ladies. Forward this if you agree. Hell even if you disagree, forward it anyway.

Men, forward this if you have BALLS !!!!: : ----xx-xx---- supporting our troops
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----xx-xx----On Your
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a first date would possibly be a low key affair maybe a coffee in a monestry somehowhere just joking..maybe a coffee in a tranquil setting by a river would be good, just to chat and maybe permeate wether there is any attraction or chemistry between two lost souls ..chemistry and charisma are appealing features that we are all probably seeeking but not through words or pictures will we find this, only by taking a chance and meeting is this possible.Just as life is all about "taking a chance" so happy fishermen and women throw caution to the wind and take a chance!!!