Hi,
OK just a few things to get out of the way. If you are shallow, materialistic, anorexic, bulimic, abuse drugs,smoke, etc, keep moving...I am pretty dam cute( just ask & I will tell you I am real and here and have alot to offer the right Lady. So far this site has shown me alot of shallowness, are you different? Prove to me that you are, I dare you to live up to what you have put in your profiles.
Now then on to the fun stuff, I am a BHM(Big Handsome Man-NOT obese), with an easy smile,an excellent sense of humor, who likes to travel, SCUBA dive, cook, play darts or shoot pool,attend local festival's I also enjoy enjoy a night at the drive in(Silver lake is the best)Amusement parks, and a sundry of other things. I am 6' tall, light brown hair /mischeivous brown eyes, & have a few tattoo's each one has a story to them, so if you spot 1 ask & I will tell you the story. I enjoy happy hour at Marges Lakeside Inn, especially when Jumbo Shrimp is playing there. For the most part I am a laid back easygoing, guy, I am not always serious, I prefer to enjoy life and be serious only when neccessary, so as you have guessed I do not sweat the small things(have been through to much and realize what is important to me)Hmm, music, I like rock(from the 50's on up), country, and some jazz & blues, I did try the ballet once, not for me I fell alseep during the performance-LOL- & I also like to camp. I am family oriented, and love being a dad. My heart is big and it has given me a few learning experiences. Life long love, companion(read as wife) and friend is what I am wanting. So if you are still reading and have any questions ask.

First date? Wow, well we could meet or do a "real" first date thing, where I pick you up, and we go to our destination, which would be ... at this time of year, a water front bar, Pelicans nest, Marge's, Schooner's, O'Laughlin's, or wherever,I am open to suggestions & ideas- wheres your favorite place? What would you like to try? Sit down and talk, ask questions of each or just let the conversation develop on its own and see if there is more for us to build on. After that an ice cream cone or sundae from Abbott's & a walk on the beach, ending in a hug and a kiss(?) goodnight back at your door or car or breakfast somewhere, 'cause we could not stop talking and laughing all night.