About me: I am a real, genuine, and decent guy that's looking for a relationship that starts slow, without any rush-rush-I-have-to- have-you type of pressure. Please slow down if that's your default mode. That's not reality and it does come off as a little desperate. To keep the interest level to a manageable level, experience suggests that the girl that will catch my interest will be intelligent, kind, sincere and generous. She doesn't have to be "BEAUTIFUL"... just be a real WOMAN. I truly do prefer genuineness to posturing, hot air or insincerity. General rule: a mature, respectful, honor-bound approach with me has a better chance of opening the door to what every man and women on the planet should be seeking... a genuine relationship based on trust and mutual respect. If you're the type that would rather spend countless hours emailing and IM'ing... you've too much time on your hands. I know I'm not seeking that type. Bring me something that separates you from the pack!!!. I figure that’s a pretty good alternative to the standard "please don’t reply unless you have a picture".

Who I'd like to meet: Interesting warm and witty, someone I can spend time with even in comfortable silence. I guess its difficult to put it in words, I am a people person, so interaction speaks louder than words.