1.I am very athletic, love to dance, travel, martial arts. I am practical, but also like a lot of romance in a relationship. I am polyamorous, looking for others who are, too, but not cheaters. Everything needs to be above board and honest. Potential LTR.

2.I am not looking for casual sex. I tend toward old-fashioned in the dating area. I like to be wined and dined, courted. I love to cuddle.

3.Favorite books and authors: Carlos Castenada; R.A. Wilson; Mercedes Lackey; Jennifer Roberson; Hunter S. Thompson; Tanith Lee; Thomas Ashley Farrand; books on herbology and psychology; Harry Potter; the early Anita Blake stories (before the excessive angst started to overshadow the stories); The Ethical Slut; The Golden Compass (a more violent fantasy than HP, with a female-protagonist); The Far Pavilions; Tipping the Velvet

4.All sorts of world music; Children of the Revolution; Iggy Pop; ZZ Top; Shaggy; the early David Bowie; Cab Calloway; blues; reggae; techno; Gaia Consort; Mae West; The Wet Spots; the Charles White Band; Etta James; Ella Fitzgerald; Bessie Smith; Paul Delay; Brazilian music; NIN; System of a Down; Shakira; Santana; ****cat Dolls; Black-eyed Peas; Maxi Priest That kind of Girl; Swamp Mama Johnson; Velvet Underground; just about anything with drums

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As of Spring 2009, my schedule is pretty tight. I need to get to know you, and you me, and that we're worth each others' time. I have one fulfilling relationship already - my husband.

Please contact me if you are considerate, romantic, athletic, poly, pagan-friendly, intelligent, sincere. You are familiar with how to court a woman. You like to dance. You are emotionally mature and don't have an over-whelmingly addictive personality. Smoking is usually a deal-breaker.

And you know how to cuddle. Not just as a prelude to sex. Seriously. You are not afraid to love someone who can (and does) love more than one person at a time. You are not looking for a submissive; rather you DO enjoy the company of a strong independent woman who speaks her mind rather freely (some would say bluntly) at times. (Although I can switch, I am not one to be easly dominated.) ;-)

ALSO: you live within the Puget Sound area. I regret to say I have insufficient free time for long distance penpals.

Food:
I strive to eat organic food as much as possible; but you know, they make organic chocolate truffles!and SPICY food; preferably with a good, chewy, red wine.

Coffee or tea would be best for a first date, so we can talk and get to know each other; see if we click. But only after talking a bit online - please do not ask me to IM, please. You may be nice, but I have had too many bad experiences that resembled an obscene phone call. {Guys; that's how to seriously hurt your chances to meet a nice girl...}
After that, I love dancing, and going to the theater.