** TWO MONTHS LATER, AN UPDATE:
Not brand new any longer and discovering what it means to be a true friend. To face dating again as an adult seemed likes such a burden to endure. But with maturity I have discovered what it is like to be friends first with a lovely woman. This is what I wish for. Fire in our minds. Our bodies will undoubtedly follow in time, and it will be magnificent.

What is my wish? To dance upon one another's mind, to get to know and discover simply everything about the other. Things never shared with a partner are now simply a part of what we are. Friendship, now and forever. And there is nothing that can come between us. Truth lies at the heart of our relationship Truth and trust and the ability to achieve anything hand in hand.

And passion is as passion was meant to be, unbridled, unquenchable, without limits or control. Simple need for a woman that is all things. She is beautiful in every way, her mind, her body, her attitude, her innocence, her loyalty and her physical desirability.

Communication seems to be the key to so much, combined with laughter and creativity and an adventurous hunger for life. Why do so many men not get it? Why are they so closed, stumbling in darkness, for a love they will never find since they cannot even find themselves to share with a woman?

What better chemistry can there be? What more fulfillment can come from having a best friend, a lover, a confidant, a person that makes rainy days simply not occur because she is more comforting than a bad day could ever be.

I know you are out there. Its as if we already know each other, isn't it? I want you in my mailbox. Now.

ORIGINAL PROFILE AFTER JUST JOINING 2 MONTHS OR SO AGO:

After many years of marriage, with legal separation here for quite some time, the end is finally happening.

So I slowly turn my head and look to new beginnings, laughter once more and someone to make me smile. Isn't it strange how when we have given our life to the ones we love for so long, we tend to forget what our own foundation was. So it is a rediscovery, strange but exciting, to get to know oneself again. And then to share that discovered person with someone new. (man, this seems like alot of work, lol)

I do think if you reach out to me that you will find a man that can make you feel those fluttering butterflies you long for.

At worst I will be a friend to help guide you towards your goals, and at best someone to make you tremble in your heart, mind and body.

Please understand this is very new to me, so I am not looking to race into another marriage. After all I am just out of one, and I would never want to mislead you. I am looking for a woman to get to know and enjoy, where we laugh and explore and get so close. Where we create a beautiful dance of intimacy and friendship and push to new places and adventures. I feel that is the way to finding something real, something lasting.

I learned long ago, that as we work on ourselves the quality of the people attracted to us changes. So what we find, is usually what we are. So if you are not happy with what you are attracting, look inward for improvement, not outward. Work on yourself and I don't mean your body, I mean your soul. Get to know yourself and see if you like what you see.

Now this idea gets thrown a bit by the internet dating world where so much initial contact is off the quality of a photo or two. It is a lesson of life, the relationships that materialize for you. Not who wrote you that day, lol.

The first date will be a custom built date made just for you! lol. After all isn't it about getting to know the woman you are and making each day precious? There is nothing routine about our days together, especially our first.