Im a 36 year old professional male, never been married, had a few long term relationships. I usually prefer girls about 10 years younger than myself, cause i seem to not act quite my age yet. But if any 30+ girls are willing to give it a shot I am always open. I work in film, so I usually have quite a bit of time off when I am not working, which I spend biking mostly. Im not so into clubbing and stuff like that, much more prefer to find a nice local bar/hang out and keep things simple yet exciting (it can be both). I also like road-trips, and spontaneous ideas and action. Photography, traveling to exotic places are my true loves in life.

I think a good first date would be at a low key bar/restaurant some good appetizers, a few drinks, and dinner. Then if things are going well and we are comfortable, maybe we stay there and have a couple more drinks or if there is anywhere else thats better we can move on. I also am open to meeting at one of our apartments and making food in, checking out a movie on dvd, or just chatting and hanging out. I am very open and I like surprises. So don't put anything past me cause I'd most likely be OK with whatever works for you. The most important thing is getting to know each other and feeling comfortable.

We can get to know each other by meeting on the beach or at a park and even bike riding (my favorite thing). But you never know what it takes to know someone, so why not just do something really random on a first date. Sky Diving anyone??!?!?! not up for that? how bout a trip to the museum of natural history L.A. ( ive been there, it sucks, but if it was too interesting we wouldn't pay attention to eachother! right? well you got my picture... let me know!