There is so much about me to tell, its impossible in the space here... I'm divorced, no kids, disease and drug free, I've got a good sense of humor, love romance, touchy-feely, like to cuddle, hold hands, love the beach, margaritas, sea food, oriental food. I'm an ex-navy bubble-head (submariner), work full time, own my home.

I love to go dancing, I like 80s music, I wanna dog but haven't gotten one yet, I'm looking for a long term relationship but want to be friends first.
I want someone who shares my views on life, spirituality, sex, would like to find someone who likes historical places, flea markets/garage sales, antique and thrift stores, the lake, the ocean and the mountains, lots of smooching, movies, likes UT football, Smokies baseball, theatre, movies, dancing.

I'm not interested in women who smoke, even occasionally, don't want you if your separated but not divorced yet, (had that and it ended badly), I like kids but I don't have any, I can't have any either (took care of that).

If your a prude, don't like to use toys, aren't adventurous then we're not a match.

Most of all I want a best friend to share it all with and feel safe around. Someone who will share with me her deep secrets and passions, fantasies and kinkiness, view points and opinions and allow me to share mine and we wont feel that either of us will judge or criticize the other but will be nurtured, respected and satisfied.

I always would prefer to do dinner on the first date. Its public, we can sit, talk and hopefully relax and get to know one another.