I'm sometimes independent, i'm not sure what i'm looking for or what I want. I want someone who can keep up with me and is aggressive, who pushes me to my breaking point once in a while. I like someone who is fun to be around, cool, a total sweetheart, has to have a personality and can connect with me and BE ABLE TO HOLD A CONVERSATION. Someone who is fun to hang out with wherever and can actually be able to drink with me. Has to be caring and pretty is always a plus. i'm a bartender so its next to impossible to B.S. me. I enjoy going to the beach or going to bars with friends, my friends are basicly my life and my family to me. I used to train jiu-jitsu pretty seriously and then I got hurt so I don't anymore. I love random trips to Las Vegas. I'm a huge laker fan. Ive traveled to lots of places but I wanna pretty much live in this area for the time being. My goal is to own my own bar/resturant one day, I love cooking and spicy food, i'm addicted to watching the food network. I like all types of music but mostly rock/alt. blahblahblah....Oh and please don't message me if you have a "socal" tat on you, i'm so sick of that crap lol.

Whatever, go to a bar for a drink, anything thats not awkward, someplace where we can actually have a conversation. I'm pretty much down for anything.